Do you think my crush is interested in me? also why do I feel worthless when I see him? 10 pts.?

[me]

So I was in college last semester with a group of girls in the cafe when two boys who are my friends' friends walked up and I instantly crushed on one of them. He had SUCH an angelic smile and he was so shy and he kept looking at me too. I asked my friend a bit of information about him and I looked at his Facebook and IG off of hers, he is so interesting, and unique which I really liked. I found out he's two years younger than me (which put me off) he's 18 and I'm 20.

I thought I can just forget him but I can't. I see him this semester a lot! Anyway, I can't gather the guts to talk to him. But it seems odd as he's always there. Sometimes he would randomly walk next to me and when I look he locks my eyes amd stops when I turn around. He stands behind me for two minuted getting closer to me then leaves to class. And when he's sitting down at the cafe and I start walking to class, he would stand up as well and start walking where I'm going with his friend, except that he walks on the other side. He's done this 3x already. He's always looking at me. Do you think he likes me? 

One more thing, I dont know why but every time I see him I get so happy but I also feel worthless. I feel like he's so much better looking than me, and that he wouldn't ever like someone like me. I mean he hangs with pretty girls. So why me? I get so depressed and it hurts. I just don't know what to do. Any help?

[?]

Aww, I feel the same way with my crush. But I think he likes you just too shy to admit it

[Stunnah]

Hi,

You're funny haha, reading this I have felt the same way around a guy I found cute, or that I was interested in.

As girls we're often intimidated by 'status' of other girls and guys, especially guys we like.

So do I think he seems interested in you? Yes.
Does that mean he is interested in you? Not sure.

But when a guy is not interested, he is simply not interested. You will look at him and never see him look at you, you will look at him and if you see his eyes, he won't even notice and look away..

About him being around pretty girls so? Does that make you not pretty? No. Part of what makes a girl look pretty believe it or not is not what she's wearing, or her hair, or makeup, but how she carries herself.

What if you saw one of those pretty girls, but they acted very awkward and self-inescure, would they come off as.. pretty ? Possibly physically, but the pretty girl next to her that had the right amount of confidence would come off a bit more attractive.

Bottom line, you don't need to worry about other pretty girls. If a guy is showing some attention to you even if he's around pretty girls, all that matters is that he is showing attention towards you. He could very well not even notice you and not showing you any attention, but he is. And that's what you have to consider.

And honestly, a lot of girls feel that way when a guy gives us attention where we think "ok.. im dreaming right..no way this guy is into me or even notices me..hes too cute for me!"

But that's what we automatically think - and we think that because we find them so attractive... yet another girl could see the same guy you're crushing on and think hes butt ugly, and if he was looking at her and such, she would be there thinking "ugh gross why is he looking at me". Same guy, same face. It's just because we feel a certain way toward someone that makes us question where we stand in their eyes.

Don't over think it. Enjoy the moment. Enjoy the crush. And even if it leads to nothing, atleast you can add him in the cute guy that was giving me attention pile. lol

Don't let his looks and your attractiveness towards him make you feel inferior. Because you're not." No one can make you feel inferior without your consent".

If you can't get the courage to talk to him, when you see him next, just say "hey" smile, and walk away after he's said it back. or give him a quick compliment and smile and walk away. Dont worry about rejection or seeming stupid or "what if he doesn't like me, he'll think im weird for saying that" No he wont. Guys like it when girls give them attention even if its just a hey or a small compliment.

Be confident! Confidence is sooo key. I get the same way around cute guys.. but have you ever had alcohol and had maybe a lil too much and you can talk to a cute guy like its nothing? It's the same thing.

Be confident in yourself. if this guy turns out to not be all that you had hoped, another guy will! And remember, its only a crush not the end all be all! (and you don't know him totally yet.. so dont let what you don't know about him blindside you.. by that i mean hes prob a great guy.. but you might get to know him and find there's something about him you don't like) so basically im saying, he might seem like this dream guy, and im not saying he's not - but im saying get to know him more first before you decide to catch feelings for him or crush super hard on him!

Best wishes!

[Wascally Wabbit]

Take it slow, and eventually if the time is right everything will fall into place. I think this boy has a total crush on you =]