How do i get over him?

[Sarah]

Ok, so about 3 years ago i had a massive crush on this guy. He was part of my group at school and everything and he still is. Anyway, i got over him.
A few days ago, i started talking to him through facebook more. We talked before but not really as much... more like a 'hey' and 'what you up to?' and then the conversation died. So, a few days ago i started talking to him more over facebook (we talked at school and everything but not on facebook) and we started playing truth or dare, so i asked him to send a picture of his abs, because i love abs . So, over a few days we started exchanging 'dirty' type pictures in a way, and didnt talk about it at school or anything. Over facebook, he asked if we could be friends with benefits so i said yes. We then started talking about our virginity and stuff and he said he would loose it to me because we kinda had a 'thing' and he kinda liked me. We met up with some friends 2 days ago and started playing truth or dare and he was dared to be alone with me in a room for 2 minutes, doing anything, so he kinda made out and stuff.
Ok, before all this happened, he like one of my friends named portia, and apparently she didnt really wanna go out with him or anything, well, at least thats what she told me.
Anyway, after a while of talking on facebook heeps and only talking a little in person (it was a bit awkward) , he said he was over portia and he liked me.
Anyway, he said that he didnt like me full yet and maybe if he continued being friends with benefits for a while he would then start to like me.
Yesterday, we went to the shops to buy the cooking stuff we need for cooking class at school (we're in the same class) together, but it was still kinda awkward. Over facebook, we had agreed to go to the park and 'make out' some more so thats what we did, even though it was kinda weird. It didnt feel right, i dont know if it was because he was too much of a friend or if it was because we werent dating. Anyway, when i got home, i went to talk to my best guy friend (who happens to be my crush's best friend) and asked him to ask my crush if he would ever ask me out. My best friend then told me what he said... my crush still liked portia and didnt know why he said he liked me more.
" I want to smooth things out with Sarah and still be able to go out with Portia", is what he said... i didnt know what he meant by 'smooth things out' with me but anyway, i started thinking..
i then meassaged him saying that its ok if he liked portia but i still want a chance with him, (it was a massive paragraph but that was the main idea). Anyway, he then sent me a massive paragraph back saying that he doesent know what to do and that he just needs time to think.
I then started talking to my best friend (girl) who happens to be my crush's best female friend, and told her everything..
By that time, i was already crying.. i knew it wasnt gonna end well..
She then started talking to him and he told her about the message i sent him and he said i was '' trying to make him feel sorry'' for me...my best friend then explained that i wasnt, and that i really liked him.
He then started saying that i ''throw'' myself at him, in the dirty way, even though hes the one who comes up with the hooking up times we should meet. He said he didnt know how to tell me that he didnt like me without calling me a 'slutty whore''....
He then told my best friend that he sent portia a message saying that he didnt know why he did the things he did, he said that when i 'threw' myself over thing, he would just give in, but everytime he was with me, he would always think of her...
Anwyay, he sent me a massive ass message saying how he didnt like me and didnt know why he did the things he did... in a way, i was kinda relieved that he friendzoned me because i knew this wasnt gonna work, but still, i felt really said
Today at school, i barelly talked to him and apparently portia is kinda mad at him and me for doing what we did.. apparently when my best friend told her i liked mitchell portia said "Sarah knew i liked him but she still went for him".. i mean, i didnt even know she liked him!!
In the end, i have kinda gotten over him in a way.. i dont know what my feelings are for him at the moment... i really wanna get over him but i dont know how...?
I really need help... did he just want to use me? Did he actually like me, or was he just confused??
Im sorry for all these words.. but yeah, i need help

[Gerardo]

Talk other people, if he can't appreciate you he doesn't deserve you. You don't want a guy who doesn't appreciate you do you? Think positive and look into someone else.