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She pushes me away because I love her way too much? 10 points for best answer.?
05-01-2014, 11:14 PM
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She pushes me away because I love her way too much? 10 points for best answer.?
So me and this girl are in love with each other, we aren't committed yet, but we do really love each other a lot, we just are taking it slow.
One day she got really upset, said she was about to deactivate her facebook, and removed all my comments from her profile.
Later she became perfectly fine, but I was hurt. After inquiring why, she told me she sometimes feel the need to push me away, because I love her so much, and she is a bit scared, saying she doesn't want to hurt anyone.
Does this imply her feelings are less for me, or she would perhaps be with another guy, or like someone else?
She just told me that she does think I love her way more than she does, but then went on to say this happens to her every time she is with a guy... Can someone explain further?

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05-01-2014, 11:26 PM
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It sounds like she is feeling confused right now. Maybe she has been hurt before and is afraid of being close to you. A lot of people push the people they care about the most away because they are afraid of getting so close and then they leave you. It may or may no make her feel better to be in a relationship with you. That all depends on how she feels but if you guys are already at the point of saying I love you why are you in a committed relationship yet? Talk it over with her and tell her your not going anywhere that your here for her and tell her you want to know whats going on in her head. Just listen. It will all work out how it is supposed to in the end : ) hope this helps

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05-01-2014, 11:37 PM
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The fact she removed some content from FB suggests someone else may be involved. Try going "cool" on her and see if you get a reaction.
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05-01-2014, 11:53 PM
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firstly, I'm not greedy for your points. Just genuinely helping you out..
If she seemed upset, I hope you asked the reason. Its really confusing to be able to decide how and why all that happened..why were you hurt, after she changed her mind form deactivating her fb acc ? the situation cannot be predicted..but personally, I think you should sit and talk to her about this, rather than typing it here ! Try finding out if anything is bothering her, as to why she feels the need to maintain a distance from you at times..

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