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Please answer this, What does she mean by this?
05-15-2014, 01:29 PM
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Please answer this, What does she mean by this?
So me and this girl have been on and of with being friends. I told her last year that I liked her and of course didn't feel the same way at the time cause I said it too soon. and yesterday we were both fed up. She said this:

fact that your actions are different then what you kept saying on twitter. I like you (my name), you're cool, obviously. I wouldn't even be trying to text you if I didn't and I definitely was in to you in the beginning so give yourself some credit. I've just been hesitant all because of social media and I hate that. Yaa it would be cool to forget, like everything and start over as friends haha. Just don't think I'm not trying to hang when I can't. I'm busy as hell and barely have time for myself nowadays

I apologized for my actions of course cause it was pretty childish and I guess it's all good but idk. I feel like part of me is afraid that I might catch feelings again for her and she'll turn me down again you know? And is she wanting to start over and be friends for good?
I messaged her today to see if she wanted to go to a basketball next week and she said this:

Hey! Yaaa I'm down, I still get off work at 6:30 that day so I hope that's cool!

I'm really confused with her cause she tells me she was interested in me the beginning but when I said I liked her too soon she turns me down. Then says she busy and doesn't have time for herself so I'm confused.

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05-15-2014, 01:35 PM
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ask her?

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05-15-2014, 01:49 PM
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Hi
Im sorry but you didn't give a clear explanation what made you both reach that extent.Any way you'd better give yourself and her as well a lil space for things to cool down. Take some time on your own and let her feel how its like when you are away. Through out that time you will find out if you yourself want to continue with her whether as a friend or a gf .. whatever. And will be a good chance to see what will be her reaction. Will she initiate to talk back missing you or she would be happy you stepped away or ... , i guess you know what i mean.
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05-15-2014, 01:58 PM
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Hmm im trying to think of what to say but I dont really know what youre asking.

But what i would say is tell her your true feelings. Most of the time girls are flattered even if they don't say so. What could it hurt saying " you know what I like you." because who wouldnt want someone saying that. Apologize for things that happened on the internet and if it doesn't work out try to start new. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
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05-15-2014, 02:07 PM
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I dont really know what you are asking...I think you must be careful tho, and I dont think you are going to be able to stop youtself for feeling something towards her...
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05-15-2014, 02:18 PM
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Ask her
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05-15-2014, 02:29 PM
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I think she wants to be friends for good and you might catch feelings but try not to look at her in that way Maybe your feelings for her might fade and I know it&#x27;s hard but ...yehh
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05-15-2014, 02:40 PM
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Don&#x27;t really know what your question is....
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05-15-2014, 02:49 PM
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I would give yourself some time I was in a similar situation and it doesnt help to continuously dwell on it. Try being friends again be if things dont work out just move on.
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05-15-2014, 02:52 PM
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Why don't you wait and see if anything develops. If it doesn't then just keep her as a friend. Simples
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