How I am suppose to deal with my ex when I'm seeing him?

[520]

I broke up with my ex cousin in 2010 due no feelings for him after his mother and my mother had some discussion about the ideas of us to be together. I was only 12 yr old when my mother had to offer me her nephew to be in a relationship with me for future marriage. But at that times, l didn't know how to say no.

So he knows a whole story too and I know his history, he got cheated on me, his immature and always busy for work.

Now, he created his few fb account and added me. So I messge him to get know if he is in a relationship then I would be so happy for him but he hasn't. He says he is a better man now and put in order to say that he know who he love. He says he love me but I don't have any feelings for him after we got broke up in a long distance relationship through online msn in 2010.

So now I feel so much anger, scared and less happy (sad) because of my family are going oversea to meet all cousins for a holiday. But I don't want to see him ever because he suddenly become so obsession of me after we got broke up.

Any tips or advice about what else to make him believe that l don't want him and have no feelings for him? I told him a few times that he must move on like I did already.

Im having meltdown emotional because I don't want to go oversea in a few months left. I have worse anxiety

[john]

Talk to your folks.
Might be embarrassing but they'll know exactly what you mean and the best way to deal with it.