Why'd he limit my facebook access three days before dumping me?

[sar]

This happened quite a while ago and I have always been curious as to why this ex-boyfriend did this, and maybe you have some ideas

I was dating this guy for 3-4 months, and I was set to be moving away (we both knew this before hand, and we were being casual). So on a tuesday or wednesday I go on facebook and I was going to write on his wall and i notice that he suddenly has no wall. I thought this was strange. I thought that he was limiting my access to his facebook page. Then Thursday, he contacts me saying he needs to "talk" (dun dun duuuun) as soon as possible, and can we meet on Friday. I ask what it's about, and he says that he has thought about his feelings and really needs to talk about this. I knew what was going down...

sure enough Friday he dumps me, and he's crying like a baby. but a dump is a dump.

This was years ago, but to this day I am still curious as to why he had restricted his facebook wall 3 days before he dumped me? It was like a give-away of what he was going to do. Just 3 days before THAT, he was telling me how much he liked me and how we have so much in common. I just found that strange that he'd block my access before the break up. And no i rarely even wrote on his wall.

later, at a mutual friend's house, we looked at his page from her account and it was clear what he had done, because people had been posting on his wall during that time. nothing about it was controvesial or would've hurt me at all.
Markus - it's just something I always thought of as a strange thing for people to do.

What's wrong with being a curious person and trying to figure out why people do certain things?

[Sharon Debois]

He needed 3 days to think about how to dump.

[Markus]

This happened YEARS ago and you are still wondering about it? Can you get anymore pathetic?

[Barking Lunchbox]

who cares? What happened to this place, anyway? I've been away for a while.

[Ebook]

didnt you forget to mention something, hm? why did he "dump" you?
i dont think he dumped you out of nowhere to then cry like a baby about it, you have done something to him that hurt him and how you write tells you dont even mind, rather you mind the back and forth on some website. that tells at same time why he limited his facebook access, because he was to hurt and diggested the hurt in those 3 days to then finaly depart from you, that means he knew what you did (to answer your question). you have dumped him long before he dumped you and question is rather why YOU have done that. what i do NOT know is why he flatterd your e/ go by crying for you, i would have simply said BYE !

[Mabe]

Really if you reversed the way the man acted by crying, and his laughing hysterically on the flip side with this, then he really isn't into this, and can't imagine why you would either..the point being is that he wants it over with so bad he doesn't know whether to laugh or cry about it. Which is ridiculous, but you said so yourself, casual..what does that mean exactly but that you don't really know each other very well, and what you both knew wasn't much more than casual. Not something he is wanting is the reason why. He doesn't seem that you both have what it takes together for what he wants and needs. Respect him for that. He could have ended it badly, but he rather felt like telling you in person, and not being happy, but crying around someone that you can be with and be happy, is a sure sign that it was making him out of his comfort zone with it. He wants that back for himself, and this is his way of doing so. Starting with f/b was a start..calling you another..letting you know, is letting you know, and not dumping on you.