i just want a maid of honor and one bridesmaid.. is this okay?

[Ricardo]

Yes you may. It sounds like a lovely wedding. And mazel tov

[ChemoAngel]

Yes of course it's fine. You can have as little or as many as you want.

[595]

"i feel obligated to have them as bridesmaids which isnt how it should be."

Exactly. Why on earth would you feel "obligated" to include these people with whom you have only a tenuous now&then relationship? The fewer bridesmaids you have, the fewer headaches you have, is my thought. Two is plenty.

[Lydia]

That's just fine.
You could have your friends do a reading, be ushers, sit at the guest book, etc. if you want to give them roles.

[Rosalie]

Bridesmaids are the people who will be by your side whatever you're going through - and that does not mean a frowny face on your FB page.

Stick with the girls who are really there for you for the long haul, in person, when things are really happening. That would be your sister and your best friend? Perfect. The other two can go as guests. In person.