I'm Tired of my single life..?

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Hi I'm a 17 year old male, never had any close interaction with any female before, never kissed a girl never had a girlfriend in my life, people say I'm a decent looking guy and extremly fit 6 pack big arms shoulders etc, I have been complemented by a lot of girls about how fit I am, not trying to boast here. I can't seem to make a single female friend at all, it's like I can't keep a conversation at all and I can't even keep eye contact no matter what.. I feel like I'm missing out a lot because all my friends get girls easily while I'm always the third wheel for some reason.. Everyone asks me why don't you get a girlfriend? And I just reply by idk because I don't want to sound like that desperate guy who just wants a girlfriend..
I always feel stressed whenever I see my friends with girls and I get so sad when my friends ditch me to hangout with their girlfriends and I'm like why me.. How do they do it. What's the secret behind it.. I don't have a single female friend at all

[aniya]

go on facebook and try to talk to girls or there then you can try to ask a girl out a school or maybe find someone on facebook that lives close to you and ask her out or you can do online dating my friend goes on this one chathour.com

[rukahk981]

confidence and just talking to girls.

i thought girls were a different species when I first enter the real world of dating (they still are). but I guess guys get intimidated by a girl, especially if they really want a girl friend. the "secret" is just approaching girls without fear and making small talk. girls will respond to you 90% of the time if you are not a creep. they aren't heartless people that just ignore people. it's scary, but if you have good self-esteem, self confidence in yourself, it's like talking to a friend. just talk. think about it this way, you have nothing to lose, but everything to gain. if she rejects you then cool, you never had her in the first place. if she accepts you, then awesome you gained a female friend (and potential gf). come in acting like she will reject you and you won't be let down and rejections wont hurt your ego. once you get used to rejections, it's like you built an armor of rejections.

remember, you are a MAN. girls are GIRLS. don't be scared of them.