This Forum has been archived there is no more new posts or threads ... use this link to report any abusive content
==> Report abusive content in this page <==
Post Reply 
 
Thread Rating:
  • 0 Votes - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Why did she put a picture like this up with another boy?
11-09-2012, 09:35 AM
Post: #1
Why did she put a picture like this up with another boy?
Today I logged into facebook and saw that my gf put a picture up of her and another boy hugging in the picture as her profile picture. I couldn't believe my eyes knowing that me and her took pictures together and she never put that picture up as her profile picture. We been together for 6 months straight, we tell each other that we love each other and would never leave each other and everyday we even talk about our future and she plans to move out with me in a year when she turns 18. So I am completed shocked btw after she putted up that picture I texted her and called her 20 mins later which she ignored me. So an hour later she called me back and texted me with an excuse like I knew she ignored me on purpose so I am ignoring her back. What should I do in this situation? She always told me I am cute i dont understand.

Ads

Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
11-09-2012, 09:43 AM
Post: #2
 
I would definitely bothered if my girlfriend did that. You need to talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. And when you do, make sure you really feel satisfied from the conclusion. I've learned the hard way that little problems like that can indicate bigger problems in a relationship. The best advice I can give you here is that if you have any nagging little problems with her reaction when you talk to her about this, don't just let it go. It may not seem like a big deal, but this kind of thing often points to a bigger issue, and if you let it go without being satisfied, you're letting the problem continue.

I wouldn't advise ignoring her back, though. You don't know for sure that she ignored you on purpose, and reacting that way is just being passive aggressive and not making the problem any better. If she really did ignore your call and text message, that is something you should talk about, but you should try to be the mature one and not do the same thing to her.

Really, you need to talk to her. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Her behavior isn't great, but it could be that she really doesn't see a problem with how she's acting, and either way, she needs to know how you feel.

Good luck.

Ads

Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
Post Reply 


Forum Jump:


User(s) browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)