Am I in the wrong for being angry?

[LisaL]

So my fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. He has a best friend who I never used to have a problem with. He would come over and play video games and usually go to dinner with us and I never cared, i was usually the one who invited him. Well he works in a night club on the weekends as a bouncer and flavor flav was coming to the night club and every one in town was making a big deal about it. Well I made the comment "why is everyone getting so worked up? its flavor flav" (i mean really...come on!!) and well my fiance's friend got all upset about it and deleted my fiance and i from facebook and hasn't spoken to my fiance for over 6 months. Well in the past 2 weeks he has been texting my fiance like nothing happened! and i'm just really annoyed by it and i really wish my fiance wouldn't even talk to him anymore. I don't want to be one of those girls that say you can't be friends with so and so but what if he gets mad about something else stupid and totally ignores us again?? Should I just get over it? or do I have a right to be upset?

[john]

Yes you do mainly because he likes flavor flav

[Chris]

he's just being dramatic. i would just get over it and move on. hes the one that's making himself look stupid by acting like that.

[Laura Renee]

He's your fiance's friend in the first place, and if your fiance wants to be in touch with him, then let him. If the friend gets mad again sometime in the future, he gets mad. That's between him and your fiance. You don't have to invite him over or pretend to be friends with him, but don't knock him. He's your fiance's friend, after all and he will only come to resent you if you're knocking one of his friends. Let him figure out for himself if this is a true friend or not. Yes, the guy acted like a jerk by deleting you both off his FB account. Maybe he knows it now. Maybe he has even made amends to your fiancé about it all. Who knows? You're best to stay out of it.

[Rosa]

The dude was upset because you hurt his ego. I dont think you should be mad about who cares if he ignores you. what does he have to offer you? Just let it be

[AV]

I would suggest you just talk to your fiancee.. Like, ask him what his friend is upto? Why has he suddenly come back as if nothing happened? (Ask this in a nice way, not like you are complaining or anything) if your fiancee has forgiven him then its none of our business being angry on him. Afterall he was your fiancee best friend, not yours.. Maybe you need to cool off a bit. The other guy was just being stupid and he must have really missed his friend all this time.. Give him a chance and be nice to him...