Should I intervene if my wife is facebook friends with a neighbor?

[Spfffy!!!:)]

Welll, Just keep an eye on him! and dont leave the house when hes home lmfao im jk but seriousllly just talk to her about it and see where it goes!

[Alisssssss]

question is, do you trust your wife?

[Tiger81]

I'm no longer on Facebook but I was friends with a lot of women and not their boyfriends even though I had a girlfriend. I don't see the difference.

[Allison]

I would post it on my facebook wall. This would be a totally cool status update.

[Foreversweet]

I wouldn't worry about it at this point. Just send a request to the wife and then one to him to see if he accepts it.l

[Lindsey]

yes Facebook is now nothing more than a dating web site it seems like..my brother and sister in law have been married for 13 years and now they are getting a divorce over both of them on Facebook...That is why me and my husband do not have one anymore... certain ppl use it differently but for the most part it is for hooking up now days! Good luck and stop it before anything starts!

[S]

if you feel you have to then you should.. there's no point second guessing or waiting, you are her husband, she should respect your feelings. if she gets defensive and all weird then she's defending something, but if its no big deal andyouu both laugh about it then she has no intention of other..
like you said though, it is weird that she's only friends with him, if i were the wife, i would be thinking strangely too

talk to her andresolvee this.. fb is only meant for single ppl or kids with no lives.. the dude is 5 houses down, what could they possibly need fb for when there are tons of other ways for contact

[mmm]

sounds like your wife doesn't have a lot of friends - but if some 'bimbo' neighbor befriended my s/o and 'ignored' me . . . I would not be happy at all . . . and I say the word 'bimbo' because she would be too stupid to understand how wrong it was to try to befriend one spouse and not the other . . .how would she like it? not so much

If it were your wife initiating - I would say befriend the wife on facebook but she didn't ...I would ask her about it, tho

[Willow]

Send him a request, and if he doesnt accept than something is up. If he doesnt accept its perfectly in your rights to ask your wife to unfriend him, because he doesnt have your best interests at heart, and you must protect your family

[Mike]

Intervene? No. But I would watch. If your wife's not very active on Facebook than you have nothing to worry about. I hate Facebook. Had if for awhile and found that all I was doing was creeping - looking through my wife's wall for comments and reasons to be jealous. when after a few months i saw nothing i just cancelled my account. best thing i ever did. FB is not a relationship builder, it is a relationship buster. More and more people are hooking up this way. if they're not hooking up, at the very least they are taking time away from their closest relationships by being on the computer. Be near your wife when she's on facebook - I'm always around my wife and she'll share things that she's viewing and talk to me about who she's hearing from, etc. It's not spying on your part and it helps to build trust and keep communication open. Good luck.