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help I'm really worried! I'm talking to two girls at once and they have grown close to me!?
11-09-2012, 10:00 AM
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help I'm really worried! I'm talking to two girls at once and they have grown close to me!?
And to top it all off, they are best friends.

How it happened:
I was talking to girl A for about a month and we got to be great friends when suddenly girl B starts talking to me on Facebook, I responded and for a few days after that she keeps texting me and we start becoming friends and she hinting that she likes me and I have grown fond of her too, I'm not the kind of guy that would play two girls but I'm in this situation where I don't want to end up losing one of the girls friendships or worse because they are best friends losing the both of them, please help!

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11-09-2012, 10:08 AM
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just watch yourself, because if they are true best friends they could be testing you! so just be open and tell them both you are talking to them both i cant see there being a problem if it is just friendly banter. so dont worry, the sooner you tell them you are talking to both the better or it will prob look worse than it is. do you see yourself getting serious with one of these girls if so you need to pick so you can make the strick friend bounderies with the other one. it is horrible to be lead on.

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11-09-2012, 10:08 AM
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Yeah this is gonna end badly for you bro. Shouldnt have been a player your probably gonna get your dick cut off with a rusty butter knife..
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11-09-2012, 10:08 AM
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This is a tough situation to be in. Here are some things to think about. Are you sure that Girl A likes you as more than a friend; if she doesn't, then you have nothing to worry about and you can go for Girl B since you are obviously wanting to. Do you have feelings for both girls or for just one? From what I gathered, you only like Girl B. But if you like both girls as girlfriend material, then you are going to have to pick one or the other. You can't play them both, like you said because you will end up losing one or both of them. It's not your fault that you like only one as a friend and one as a girlfriend, if that is the case. Everyone has those things that attract them and that don't and we can't be attracted to everyone even if they are the greatest or nicest people on the planet. The only problem I can see is if both girls like you and in that case, the one that you don't like...if she has the courage to end up telling you that she likes you and you tell her you don't, you will most likely end up losing her as a friend anyways. That is normally what happens, but not always. Also, just keep in mind the friendship of these girls, you don't want to ruin a friendship between them....so just tread carefully and find out if Girl A likes you as more than a friend. In the end, though, you are going to have to do what makes you happy. You can't not date someone because someone else doesn't want you too.
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