How to move from friend to boyfriend?

[john]

Me and this girl have been friends now for close to 3 years, initially she always text me but as time has gone on she's stopped, but we still talk almost everyday on facebook. I asked her once if she was just being polite with me and didn't want to talk but she said she wasn't and that she likes talking to me.
She keeps going on that she wants to meet my family, but every time i ask if she wants to hang out she's always busy; she is a workaholic, she is really focused on her studies and has a part time job as well.
We still flirt occasionally, but she says she just sees me as a friend, but i think that this is because she doesn't see me often enough. When we were at a party together she kept commenting that she was a good kisser and when we were on the floor together she didn't mind me having hold of her hand, and when i went to leave at the end of the night she gave me a hug which is rare for her. i joked the next day if i had tried to kiss her would she let me and her response was "who knows "

But everytime i ask to hang out with her she's always busy, to be honest i do pick pretty bad times, she always says that she's sorry when she says what she's busy with, like today she has extra lessons so isn't free in her frees at school.
I just don't know what to do, should i give her sometime without me, like a week or something like that, i really like her and don't want to lose her. But i know from her past that she struggles with relationships and even more so when it comes to friends.
What do you think i should do? and how would you go about doing it?

[hallahgirl]

I think she does like u although she feels like she doesn't see u enough to actually go out with you. You should keep in touch with her the amount u usually do bc if a girl tells u she likes talking to u, she's not lying. Don't ask her to hang out for a while. Let her know that she can start making plans if she wants. If u know that she will b free for a little sometime then ask her to hang out. Sometime girls have more of a busy schedule then the guys so they make the plans. Thats how it is for me n my bf. So give her a little space and but still talk to her everyday. Be nice, be honest, & be respectful of her and she will come around. Time pays off Hope this helped good luck

[Man I Make Sense]

Give her some time. You should have kissed her when she was telling you she was a good kisser. That's her signal for you to do her, man. You missed it. next time be sure to get things going well meaning you two are making out. If you ask her out & she says she's busy, tell her to make the schedule or give the time when she's available. That way you will be his priority & nothing else. You know she is a busy person so you have to cope up with her shifting schedules. If you really like her, hold on, keep in contact & tell her everything you want to tell her, depending on the mood, if you think she's in a good mood, tell her how you feel, if not, tell her a bit in a signal form or indirectly, you know what I mean. Go!

Take care.