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How can I get these girls to like me?
11-09-2012, 12:02 PM
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How can I get these girls to like me?
In the past few months, my friends have started hanging out with a group of generally nice girls, but I still haven't really befriended them as I am to quiet and shy to talk with them.
My biggest problem is, I have this good feeling a good majority of these girls may dislike me for whatever reasons. I'm not going to complain about that, but i'd like to fix that, I want to prove to them that I'm a great guy, the only problem is, I'm way to shy, and I honestly don't feel that randomly out of nowhere, talking to them will magically solve my problems, I don't want to come off creepy.

It makes it even worse knowing that apparently in this Facebook group chat, an offensive Facebook sock-puppet account was claiming to be me, whilst the rumors were dispelt quickly, one of my friends took a few screens shots of what the girls were saying in the group-chat when talking about me involving the sock-puppet, and it didn't really sound friendly at all.

Whilst I do believe I can have some flaws in my social skills, I'll tell you right here, the reason they dislike me is not because I'm a bad person and not because I am a heavily flawed person, keep in mind, I have plenty of great friends that get along with me perfectly. I feel they dislike me because I'm 'there' and I have nothing to contribute to their group. Whilst the group could be having a fun time, just having my quiet awkward prescience can be a nuisance (I know this because I have felt similar feelings to other quiet people)

I would also like to add, this has nothing to do with sexual desires at all, I am only aiming at establishing some sort of friendly terms between them, I'm sick of feeling that presence of being unwanted around them. They are really nice girls with really great personalities, not as bitchy as I may be describing them, I feel I can completely understand their dislike towards me.For all I know, I could be over-looking it. I am aware that 2 of them think I'm a nice person.

But how can I prove to all of them, that I'm a great guy with a great personality without coming off like a complete creep?

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11-09-2012, 12:10 PM
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Show them your manlyness by whatever means possible

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11-09-2012, 12:10 PM
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Well, to start off being shy generally will get you nowhere, so go up and say, "Hey ladies, are you down to get down?"

Btw, buy some condoms for the after affect. If you know what I mean. Big Grin
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