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Is it ok to save picutres of your ex girlfriend?
11-09-2012, 04:45 PM
Post: #11
 
Not everyone destroys all evidence of exes. Im still friends with every single ex ive ever had. My wife is friends with most of them as well. Stop being insecure, maybe he wants to keep memories from that time. It doesn't mean he wants to leave you or he likes her better.

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11-09-2012, 04:45 PM
Post: #12
 
Hi sweets..... He is cheating you & secretly desiring for her (may be in fantasy or something). Just talk to him & make him understand that IF YOU FLUSH; IT HAS TO GO DOWN THE DRAIN & NOT COME BACK !!!
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11-09-2012, 04:45 PM
Post: #13
 
she has been part of her life. i think it's not fair to ask him to delete the photos
there's a reason why he is with you not with her, so don't be jealous because of that
there's nothing wrong with keeping the pictures of his past

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11-09-2012, 04:45 PM
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Monica, Monica, have a happy hannukkah ♪
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11-09-2012, 04:45 PM
Post: #15
 
If you date someone long enough, they start to be one of your best friends. Its understandable that even though he's not dating her, he'd still want to save those memories.
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11-09-2012, 04:45 PM
Post: #16
 
Whoa little less insecurity here! He kept them because they were a happy MEMORY as in his past as in GONE as in PAST as in NO MORE!!! etc etc. Do you have pictures from your past, things you did with friends etc well there is no difference here at all IT IS IN THE PAST! Give him new memories and good ones and those pictures will suddenly vanish!
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11-09-2012, 04:45 PM
Post: #17
 
People like to save memories even if they are past the event or the person in the picture. It doesn't necessarily mean that he has any present feelings for her but he did at the time.

I have a yearbook from HS that has pictures in it of several girls i went with during that four years of my life. Should I cut out their pictures just because I married someone else? One of the girls went on to become a minor film star. Should I not go to movies in which she has small parts?

It has to be judged in the context of how does he relate to the past. If he has a shrine to her and lights candles over her pictures, you don't have a boyfriend, you have a maniac. If he simply keeps memories of the past, he is normal and it doesn't mean he will leave you for her or even cares about her.

Judge him by how he acts. Is he kind and considerate of your needs? Does he flirt with other girls? Is he there for you when you need him? Does he give you any reason to distrust him in any behavior like secret phone calls or things other say about what they see when you aren't there? If the answer to all of these is positive, you have nothing to worry about. If it is negative, it has
nothing to do with her,he just is untrustworthy!

Best of luck. Judge him by what he DOES, not by what pictures from his past he saved.
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