Am I overreacting to my girlfriend having guy friends?

[waterbug42]

just talk to her and express that you are uncomfortable and then she will become more careful about these things although if not just ignore it

[sbsjill]

No, it shouldn't be a problem. A lot of the time girls need other guys to keep in reality, but if she prefers hanging with them rather than you most or all the time, it can be a problem. If you suspect she isn't being honest, just ask her. (most girls think it's cute when guys get jealous anyway ;p) but don't be the one boyfriend who needs to have complete control over his girl all the time, it's just annoying. So long story short, let her hang with her guys friends once and awhile because it doesn't mean anything, and show her all the time why you are the one she choses over all of them(-;

[Katniss Everdeen]

Ummm..... let's see....
NO!
Even though she is your girlfriend, you can't be
getting on her case every two seconds about her guy friends.
Part of a relationship is trust, and if you don't have it, your
relationship is destined to
FAIL!

[Katniss Everdeen]

A friend of mine (a woman of 40) has a best friend who's a man. They've known each other since high school, both are married with families, and they are best friends to this day.

I think it's healthy for a man (or a woman) to have close friends of the opposite sex. There are some women who find other women to be too catty. And some men find other men to be too macho and immature.

You cannot dictate who she is friends with. In fact, if I were you, I'd want to get to know these guys. Knowing who a person's friends are can really tell you about a person. She's just "one of the guys". Likes to hang out.

[tebone0315]

Yes you are. Dont you have friends that are girls? Its the same thing. Girls can have friends that are guys and it can be completely platonic. Dont start trying to control what your girlfriend does because this is a good way to lose her.