My husband left me for another woman and she seems to want to be friendly with my daughter? Is that right?

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I would. She is sticking her huge nose into your business, and it doesn't belong there.

[AnswerDude]

That is none of your business!

This should be between the father and the daughter ONLY! SO if the daughter says something about the "woman" you only need to say "Ask Your Father"!

Also remember that your relationship with your soon to be ex is none of your daughters business either! Don't dump a load of crap on her about her father! ! ! IF she ask you why or what her father is doing again your answer is "Ask Your Father" DON'T answer things that is HIS responsibility! ! !

[Jude]

theres nothing u can do, i would tell my child the truth as she will find out anyway later on.

[SuzyQ]

it's great for her to want to have a relationship with your daughter but as far as comments about your ex on facebook,that has to come to an end.tell her or at least tell your ex whats shes doing and to have him put a stop to it

[Lady M]

It's not fair, but at least if your husbands with another woman, the woman is being nice to your daughter and not treating her badly. Doesn't make it feel any better, I'm sure.

[grammie]

No first you talk to your ex? about this. And if he doesn't take charge of her, than your turn.

And if you are still married this women shouldn't be contacting your daughter at all. She could at least be considerate and wait until the divorce, But she wasn't being considerate to you when she had your husband move in with her!!

[curvedjoke049]

if the woman's motives are to garner a relationship w/ his and your daughter, than personally i would stay out of it and let that be. if you confront her, you are going to come across as the bitter "ex".

as for the comments though, you should have a talk with your husband and have him tactfully ask her to lay off comments like that.

[No Special Agenda]

Explain to the daughter who she is in your husband's life and what he has done. Let her decide if she feels ok with this contact and let the husband field any questions. That is if he is man enough......(seeing that he left you and shacks up with this other woman)

[angel]

I would she has your husband and now she wants your daughter to! F-that you should confront her and your husband! Just because he wants to keep trash around doesn't mean he needs to pollute your little girl to!

[Trinity]

I think it is not necessary, since you ex is not making it a secret, and your daughter also knows that. I would hold off unless there is a reason to confront after all, she is now a step mother. It's hard to accept but that is how it works. Don't feel cheated, or like there is a competition between you and her...just accept and if there anything you need to clarify like setting the bar, then talk to your ex instead.