Am I wrong for not wanting my fiance to be facebook friends with his ex?

[Sweet]

My fiance and I are expecting a baby and I am very insecure and emotional right now. His ex girlfriend who is also a stripper has posted a comment on his facebook page and Inoticed that he sent her a message saying hello. I got furious and asked his to delete her. instead he deleted his entire page now we are fighting non stop. Am I wrong?

[perfectvelvet]

Probably. Just because he said hi to her doesn't mean he wants to impregnate her too. It just means he's being friendly. I read an article once that said the female you have to worry about the least (out of all the females your guy encounters and could conceivably hook up with) is his ex; he's been there, done that, and moved on. Unless you have reason to believe he's not over her (and I mean a good reason, not just because he said hi to her on Facebook), it shouldn't be a big deal.

[Emily]

Well had she just added him and thats it, i wouldnt see the problem. EVERYBODY adds EVERYBODY on fb.


But i dont think she should have posted comments to him. Its too bad she did that, i dont think ur wrong....id be upset also if a guy did that to his ex and i was his fiance.

Its too bad because then you could have pics of u and ur fiance together and then the ex bf would back off.

[Rocker Rob]

Yup you are absoloutely wrong, the fact that he is staying with you and being there for you even though ure pregnant shows how much he loves you and how much he cares for you. As far as his ex is concernd they are no more than friends and maybe just facebook friends, u need to give him some space he is nt gna cheat on u or leave u. Maybe he is stressed and tensed and needs FRIENDS to talk to. Get one thing straight there r somethings people can share wid frnds & nd nt lovers and his ex might be the person wid whom he is sharing things with. I trust and believe that he loves u and only u. You shud strt hvng faith in him and stop believing in stupid social networking websites. Hope evrything will be great between the bth of you and ure gna have a wonderful baby.Cheers & All the best.
PS: Im in a relationship and at times i call my ex fr advice in my new realn. Yet I love my current GF mre than my EX, but my ex was a good frnd of mine at some pt of my life so in a way even she knows me very well so i keep takin advice frm her and she guides me.

[Neo]

he is not having sex wit her its fb
i know when ppl rpregnant ppl r emotional
but there is a limit

[KatZee]

Yeah you are. Just because you are his fiance and you are expecting a baby does not give you the right to control him and tell him who he can and can't be friends with on facebook. It's FB for Christ's sake. Yeah, you're pregnant, but you're able to control yourself. All he said was hello. She was once an important part of his life.You can't just control him, tell him to delete her and pretend she wasn't. They're no longer together. He asked YOU to marry him. Not her.

Basically you're showing him your true personality and how you're going to act when he does marry you. You're not putting your best foot forward here.You're showing him you're controlling, manipulative, extremely insecure, jealous, irrational, and unable to control your actions. None of these things are good.

Your insecurities are your own. I suggest you really acknowledge them and work on fixing them. You don't own him. You never will.