How do some fathers & mothers get away with this?

[Managing Life]

Posting pictures of themselves (on their time off from the kids) drinking and getting high , then posting the pictures all over the internet(facebook)
Then having the album next to it with their children in it.
I just think it's rather trashy.
What about you?

[davya85]

The getting high part is definately trashy, but as far as drinking, it depends. There's a huge difference between taking a few pictures have cocktails with your girlfriends at dinner and doing shots at bars and clubs every night.

[Christopher]

It's definitely trashy either way do to having the children's photos there too! It's not good as a parent what so ever! CPS sees these photos they'll lose their kids, it will serve them right! Stupidity gets you no where!

[Maddox]

I think it's disgusting. GREAT Parenting!

[chickenfarmer]

I second Davya.....you can't tell by a photo with booze if the person is sloppy drunk and neglecting her kids. If there's booze and she's posing doing something questionable then that's different.

[BoSox27]

I personally wouldn't do either. I don't use drugs and I rarely drink to start. However, there is a bit of a difference between having a picture snapped when one just so happens to be holding a glass of wine and a picture in which one is doing keg stands or using illegal drugs. I get what you're saying, though.

[BoSox27]

As long as they aren't getting drunk and high in the child's presence, then I see nothing wrong with it..besides the fact that smoking weed is illegal.

[scrawnystar044]

I agree with the first answer completely.
Getting high - disgusting behaviour as a parent (coming from someone who used to take class A's before I was pregnant, then grew the hell up), photos or no photos.
Drinking - depends in what context. If it's photos from a rare night out with friends and there are a few drinks being consumed then I don't see it as a problem - I have a few night out pics on my facebook, I haven't been on many nights outs but the few I have been on there've always been lots of photos from, and it's a nice keepsake. And yes, there will be albums of my son next to it because he is the main thing I take photographs from! If you're speaking about these mums that are out every night week getting pissed then it's a different story, not appropriate at all. But as I said, if it's just a very occasional lighthearted thing, I don't think we need to be prudes about it.

[Jen]

My stepsister is one of those people.
She has pictures of her passed out in what looks like just a bra and panties and others of that sort, and then an album of her son...but she just happens to be a pretty bad parent in general.

[PandaBear]

Well I don't get high but I do drink and I do have pictures of me and friends out having fun. I know my limit when it comes to drinking and I don't get so drunk that I'm passing out or don't remember what I'm doing or where I am. There's nothing wrong with having a beer in my hand in one picture and a picture of my kids sitting in my lap in the next.