What Should I Say About the Engagement or Should I Not Say Anything?

[MrsRed]

Well if they don't like her, can you blame him for keeping it quiet and not telling you or your parents? It's his job to tell them if he is engaged or not.

[veritas85]

Talk to your brother about it. Maybe he's just waiting for the opportunity.

[belladonna112]

You know what? Let him break the good news. It is his news to deliver.

[Angel Q]

If you want to use politic. Make the arrangement that your parents know about it by them self. some how make the facebook available to them or any other possible way.

[katie2008]

It is said that if someone keeps a relationship a secret from their family, then they are with the wrong person.

Obviously your brother is aware that his engagement would not make his family happy; but we don't know the whole story.

Why do you feel bad knowing about the engagement? That doesn't make any sense. There is a lot more to this entire story than you are telling us.

[Sofa King]

Don't tell your parents. Let him tell them, that's his business, not yours.

[jeanette]

i would ask your brother about it... tell him you seen it on his facebook... if his family doesn't like the woman he is marrying, maybe that is why he isn't saying anything... don't break the news, it isn't your place...

[I love my love]

no, your brother should be the one to tell your parents. you should call him and say congrats and ask him if he's told them yet, because you don't want to spoil the news if you talk to them first. if I were his fiancee I'd be pissed he hasn't told his parents yet because it's been like 6 weeks and he should be shouting it from the rooftops that he's happy to be getting married!

[Messykatt]

OMG...almost 2 months and your parents don't know?!? I'd be totally tempted to grab the phone and tell them, but it's really not your place to do this, which I think you already know or you wouldn't be asking.

However, I would call my bro and point out that news spreads fast these days and it's a miracle someone hasn't mentioned it already to them. And then I would point out that that is about as unfair to his parents as it gets, so he needs to put on his big boy pants and tell them before they hear it from their dentist. That's really immature on his part and he owes his parents a lot better than this.

[Bradley]

You need to let him tell. Talk to him. Why you got to rat him out. Its his life and his issue, why get involved!!