Should I inform my ex-father in law that his underage daughter is drinking?

[lunapurple]

Yes I would just say it in a way that is open and responsive and probably say just wanted u to know I don't want to over step my mark here but..........................

This is not tattle telling at all what happens if u sister in law gets seriously hurt or killed u will live with that regret for the rest of ur life and also young adults brains don't mature until they r in their early 20's and so over binging drinking seriously is not good for them as they are already immature in decision making but drinking alcohol lowers their inhibitions and they r far more likely to take risks

Also as their bodies r not mature very heavy binge drinking can do damage to kidney and liver and kill brain cells so YES I would approach him so he is aware he maybe he may not be

It is so sad when ppl of any age have to drink to have fun rather than have fun and have a drink

Hope it works out for u just approach him openly so ppl may get defensive and wont want to listen but if ur got a good r/ship with ur FIL it should be ok!!

[John Greene]

talk to her.... know that 95 % of teenage girls drink ( even the ones that say they dont )
if she is going into a car drunk then YOU MUST talk to her and tell her father. the driver could kill someone and your daughter would go to jail, and you would live with that everyday......
im 16 and i drink over the summer, ( boy ) and for some reason i am very calm/ normal drunk and im talking about 9-10 str8 up shots.... the other day my best friend had 6 and passed out behind a burger king, threw up about 4 times in a cab, and i had to call her parents.... now you tell me if you want to bring that apon yourself/husband

be pro-active and tell your daughter that she is forbidden to drink, to scare her.