What is the christian perspective about flirting & telling jokes with sexual innuendo?

[lisa]

My boyfriend and I are both Christians, but I noticed he likes to flirt with other women including saying sexual things which upsets me. For example, he commented on Facebook to his co-worker that he would come running to her house to rub suntan lotion on her chest. He said it was just a joke.

[Linda]

If you were a Christian you would already know the answer to this question as the bible is quite clear on the subject.
If you were a psychiatrist you would be looking for a new boyfriend.

[?]

My mom yells at me for telling dirty jokes but has not one, not even two, but THREE dirty joke books.

[Robin]

Boys will be boys... he needs to be told... he hasn't got the imagination to realize what a fool he is making of himself let alone how he is letting the christian side down with his behavior.

[planner]

not allowed.

Jesus said that if a man looks at a women with lust in his heart toward her, it is the same as if he committed fornication with her.

[Martin]

Well, its fun, so whoever does it is going to burn in hell.

[Matthew]

Christians don't tell dirty jokes. "Christians" tell dirty jokes.

[Star]

hehehe ... i have to agree with linda, the first poster.

as a christian, we watch our speech, THOUGHTS, actions .. right ?
you either pass or fail.

you know whether your bf pass or fail ... as a christian.
many call themselves ... christians.

[Maxine]

It's not the Christian thing to do. No decent man should behave that way if he has someone already. I don't respect people who do it but it is none of my business. Don't worry. If the girl had any decency she would tell him off. You should talk to him about it, not worry about if it is Christian or not.

[Chris Land]

ephes 5 condemns it. groundwire.net