My girlfriend broke up with me for a guy 2000 miles away shes never met?

[DMolden99]

sucks bro, but this is what you do. If you really love her, plead your case and do your best to get her back. If she continues to reject you then cut off all communication and make her live with her choice.
Do whatever it takes to live your life without her as a crutch. Get back in the game and keep your chin up.

if its meant to be its meant to be, not much you can do to make someone love you or stay with you if they are interested in moving on.

[Sweetmizzy96]

aww im sorry
but if you really wanna know
then the truth probably isn't what she's telling you..
she's just searching for a way to break up with you without answering any questions
therefore she just made you hate her so you dont even ask her anything
forget bout her..move on

[petiteactivity633]

It's not her, It is you.

She didn't break up with you for a guy 2000 miles away. She broke up with you, because she didn't want to be with you. She gets more emotional support and intellectual stimulation from typing with a complete stranger, than she does from you. This is the real problem, that she doesn't love you.

[athena.bond42]

I saw a documentary on this very thing. People were "falling in love" online and apparently couldn't live without each other. They had even spoken on the phone, but when they finally met not one couple liked each other. It was uncomfortable and heart breaking for them, having invested so much time and "love".
Don't worry: She's not in love with him. She's in love with the fantasy she has created in her own mind. You don't know you're attracted to someone until you are with them in person. Pheromones are what determine attraction and you can't know unless the person is there.
I'm afraid your girlfriend is going to realize she made a big mistake and come crawling back to you.
What if they never meet? How long will that relationship be satisfying? Not long. Everyone needs companionship.
If you truly love her, you're going to have to decide what to do when that happens. It may be difficult to trust her.
She's never even heard his voice. Once she has and they've met, she will likely realize she gave up something real for a silly fantasy. Decide whether you'll be able to forgive her because she'll be back. You can pull back and wait it out or let her go. Either way you can't let this eat you up.

[Diane E]

It sounds like she's built up quite a fantasy and of course it's easy to idealize someone you've never met - let alone have a relationship with. Your best bet is to give her some space for now. Let both of you cool down since a breakup is very emotional. The worst thing you can do is plead with her or call or text her all the time. If you do speak to her tell her you agree with the breakup and that both of you need some space right now. Kind of shifts the ball more into your court and she doesn't have as much control as she thought she did over the situation. I had some success with this method but it does take some time and patience to see it through.