Marriage is definitely over and my wife is really trying to annoy me. Should I tell her about her sister?

[ghostrider]

My wife is really trying to rub my nose in it over our split - despite me not actually doing anything wrong. I think she's just wanting to hurt me as much as possible. We've only been split 6 weeks and she's joining dating sites and putting it in her facebook status - saying things like she can't wait for the weekend to party and stuff. Should I tell her that I slept with her younger sister 3 years ago to hurt her back?

[Soamazing]

Yes tell her, in fact please send me an email with the results hahahaha

[em]

I thought you said you didn't actually do anything wrong...?

If you really slept with her sister (which I doubt, unless her sister is an awful human being) then why the hell do you care that she's dating?

[SherryF]

Revenge is always bad. It hurts you more than the other person. Be an adult and let it go. She will grow up soon. Don't lower yourself to her level.

[Steph]

No.. shes pry hurting enough knowing the marriage isn't going to work out so leave it alone.. shes pry trying to annoy you so she can feel something from you more then likely shes hurting and this is the only way to get your attention..

[Heatherrrrrrrr]

No. You should take the high road. She is the one that looks like a fool. The less you say the better you look and are. Stop looking at her facebook. Unfriend her. Just let it go. Plus confessing that may hurt the sister and the rest of the family. Not just your ex. I'm sure your cheating will be another excuse to her as to why you were a sh*tty husband. I'm sure if she shares on facebook about partying that she wouldn't mind sharing that you cheated on her to make you feel even worse.

[Nancy]

if she is doing those things then maybe she is same as her sister, its up to you to tell her or not but it depend on the court case that she could use for it. just ignore her and feel happy that you have your freedom after all. don't waste your time, your life for women like her, because at the end you will feel guilty or you will be really guilty, stop this before things gets worst, save your selfe from problems, prison or probation. even her sister is her sister not yours, they could claim rape, voilence and more other things that will put your life in difficoult situation.

[Richard]

I see where you're going, and I'm all for revenge, but that will not work out like you think. It will cause you more problems to tell her than it's worth.

The best course of action is to completely avoid your wife. Don't talk to her anymore, at all, about anything.

[Mr. Fix It]

Be very generous about.

Hey, there's just something I think you should know.
Going forward I know you're going to meet a new great guy, but you should take care to keep your sister away from him.
Here's looking at your kid.

[Blondie]

no. thats only going to hurt her relationship with her sister. don't do that to them.