My friend won't take a picture of me off her facebook?

[Eduardo]

I don't think you can report it as abuse... but check the rules that facebook has
Plan A - Talk to her, sit her down, ask her nicely.
Plan B - Talk to her mother/father and ask them to talk to her
Plan C - Try hacking her account (I'm sure someone other than her knows the password, or log in from her computer, she may have checked the "stay signed in checkbox")
Plan D - Get the MOST embarrassing photo you can find of her, post it on Facebook and tag all her friends on it so that they see it

Plan D is the best, and it will surely work

[Dalt]

You can untag yourself from the photo so it won't be linked to your profile but this will still keep the photo in her album. If the photo is in violation of the Facebook terms of use (nudity for example) you can just report it.

In case you took the photo with your camera and have evidence to prove it you can always contact Facebook and claim copyright infringement. You're probably going to have some problems with that.

[Amogh]

Hello,
There is no direct way you can do it;

Try anything like these ( only if she is not your real friend, and it seems like!!):

1) Illegal: hack her id and then do the needed changes,
2) All legal: remove your tag from that photo and tag all her photos with as much rubbish as you can!
3) Add her worst pic ever to your profile and publish it as much as you can!
4) Illegal because the reason is not correct: Report her abuse but its not sure that her account will get deleted!
5) Send her spams!

Peaceful ways:
6) Talk to her and get the situation solved ( or else, indulge into a street fight lol!)
7) Do a reasonable favor she asks you to do without losing your morale!

If there's no way, then you may threaten her showing her a pistol or an AK47 and ask her to delete that photo or give you her password!

*Sorry if it hurts you, some of them are mere jokes and nothing else!

Regards,
Amogh.K ( answered such type of a question for the first time)

[roundBastard076]

me and my friend have a rule that we delete any pictures of each other that we don't like.
so just say to her .. why won't you delete it? i'd do it for you. just be moody with her about it .. its not like she's in the picture is it? and even if she was she could cut you out..

but nope you can't report it look ..
'We will NOT remove photos just because they're unflattering.'
^ thats on facebook :/

if she doesn't take it off just take a picture of her sleeping or something and put it on

[kherova]

As long as the picture doesn’t violate any of Facebook’s rules, you won’t be successful in getting them to remove it.

The first logical step is to ask her. I know you have already done that, but did you really explain the reasons why you would like her to remove it? She may take it more seriously if she understands why it is making you feel like you do.

If she isn't interested in taking it down, you may try to find out why. Either it is up there because she likes the picture for some reason (that may or may not have anything to do with you if there are other people in the picture), or she is just trying to be manipulative. If she has a good reason for keeping it up such as it is the only picture she has of you or someone else in the picture, or it is the only one of an event then I would try and find a picture to give her that she could replace it with. Just make it clear that the picture you will give her is 'way better,' and should replace the one she has (not just be added to).

If the only reason she keeps it up is to be vindictive then you may have a few options:
-If you know it to be the case, confront her directly with her behavior. Letting her know that she is doing it to be manipulative, and she is no better than a kid pulling wings off of flies (or other sensory example). Try not to name call, use description of her specific behavior. If you call her a bunch of names, she will have to protect herself by being defensive. If you simply point out her behavior accurately and vividly to her, she may not like what she sees about herself (whether she directly admits it or not).

-You may need to acquire leverage. The simplest would be if you had a picture you knew she didn't like and post it saying you will take yours down when she removes the picture of you. You could also find something else she might want; even if it is making her a batch of cookies to take it down.

-Try peer pressure. Rally friends of hers or yours to petition her to take it down. If she doesn't value your opinion, find someone she does (even if it is just one person), and get them to sway her.

-Still another option is to convincingly let her know that the picture doesn't bother you. She might just be doing it to get a rise out of you, and struggling against her just makes her feel more superior. In that case, the only weapon you have is not to be bothered by it (or actively pretend until it isn't fun for her anymore).

Keep in mind that which technique you try may have unintended consequences and may affect what options you are left with. For instance, if she is just trying to get a rise out of you, the more people you involve may give her more satisfaction, making her dig in more, or if you tell her it doesn’t bother you after you have tried another tactic, she will know that it really does.

A last resort could be to tell her parents. That will give you the most negative fallout, but it may be successful in removing the picture.

An equally unappealing (but effective) option might be if the picture was taking by someone other than her, to get a lawyer to write her a letter threatening copyright law. If it wasn’t taken by you either, you would need the original owners permission before doing, though. It doesn’t matter if you would actually win the case (or even to pursue it legally), but a letter from a real lawyer could be enough [no fake letters because that could get you in trouble].

[BikerChick]

because she posted it, you are not allowed to take the picture down for her, or force her to. Though you can always untagg yourself from that picture, and report it, the facebook admins will make sure to take it down.

Goodluck, and she is not your friend when she is letting such pic be online.

[purringpicture565]

If she treats you in such a way like this, I wouldn't exactly call her a "friend." She doesn't deserve you, and you don't deserve her. I suggest reporting her of some sort. However, the best choice would be to tell your "friend's" parents or guardian about the whole situation. For sure the parent will give her some sort of punishment for what she did.

At least you know now to trust her!