Should I reach out to her or just let her suffer?

[Christy]

no you need to move on its over and done with and you need to break ties for good

[ABC]

i went through the exact same thing you did. this ex of yours sounds real immature and has alot of growing up to do and it also sounds like shes confused as well. i would still be a friend to her, but just leave it at that. i wouldnt be looking at tweets or facebook posts, cause you'll end up driving yourself crazy. whats done is done and whats in the past is in the past, leave it at that.

[Arka]

Why the hell did you even apologise for?(unless you had a big fight)... Look this girl is of no good..... You'll reach out for her??? Are you out of your mind... The moment you reach out for her you'll rekindle past feeling with her again.. And you'll suffer the same round like the one you did before. This is one of those confused girls who keeps changing boyfriends like new fashion. Look its normal to have a soft spot towards her.. But then again you just cannot go and reach out for her! I recommend you break all ties with her.. You'd feel a lot better trust me..... Goodluck

[May yellowflower]

Hmm, if she makes you sad more than- don't even bother with her. Seems like you tried multiple times to mean something to her, whether it just be someone that she used to date, and she's not seeing it. Seeing the fact that she means a lot to you. To be honest, i think you should just move on. She'll be fine. I'm sure she has friends. It sounds like your just her "fall-back" person. Anywoo, take my advice or not, i'm just a person on a website. Haha.

[Texas Wildman]

sorry to say but this girl has more problems than you can handle. your either in or not. i mean if she told you that it is over then it's over. it seems like the other guy's just used her in some way or another. don't you think she suffered already? she may have emotional problems and needs some medical help. pray for her. good luck. i am not the kind to make a girl suffer. good luck.