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I made a HUGE mistake and i need help!?
12-11-2012, 01:43 AM
Post: #1
I made a HUGE mistake and i need help!?
Okay so about a year ago i sent a topless picture with my cellphone without my face in it but my bedroom was in the background. But if i remember correctly it was a bit dark so the picture quality definitely sucked. so i sent the pic to a guy a barely knew. and i totally regret it. by the way, I was 18 when i took the picture. So a little information on this guy. He's nice but at the same time he's not. Whenever i talked to him on the phone he would always call me stupid and when we were in school he was always trying to kiss me and feel me up. I realized after just a few moments of sending the picture that i had made a horrible mistake and i shouldn't have trusted him I asked him very nicely to delete them. a few weeks went by and we were talking on the phone again and he laughed and said that he still had my picture and that if i had sex with him he would delete. well obviously i said no and he said fine and was okay with it. So than i kind of pushed him over to my friend cause i realized that he was not the kind of guy i wanted to be associated with. That worked for a little while and than he started talking to me again, now me being terrified of him i talked to him like nothing was wrong cause he had said to me that if i made him mad he could ruin my life. so the year went by and at the beginning of this year i deleted his number but i made sure to remember the first 3 digits of his phone number so if he texted me i would know it was him. He stopped texting me but recently he started up again. texting me the same thing "Hey" and every time i see the number come up or i see a post of his on facebook i get this flood of anxiety and worry and i just want to cry and i really want to tell my parents what i have done but i know that they would be extremely mortified but i dont know what could really be done about it. basically i just need advice because i've been having anxiety over this ever since i sent it and im so scared and i just want this to be over! i hate feeling like this.
I'm not sure if he has the pic or not..i mean it was a year ago.

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12-11-2012, 01:51 AM
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hang out with him. get his phone. delete the picture.tell him you got a new number, ask to see his phone to put your number in, and quickly delete the pic. THEN RUN.

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12-11-2012, 01:51 AM
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Be more careful in the future and don't send photos to any one.
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12-11-2012, 01:51 AM
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If you were lying and under 18 you can have him arrested for indecent pictures of a minor. If you really were 18, you can fess up, bite the bullet and tell your parents. Then next time he threatens you, you can tell him to shove it. At least its just your boobs.
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12-11-2012, 01:51 AM
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See a counselor or theripast, I know you probably don't want to do it but its the right thing to do. Yes you made a mistake but that's in the past. Learn from it and move on. Make better more responsible decisions. We can't change the past but we can for the future Smile
Don't talk to him at all. See a counselor. Be happy. Forget about it. Move on. Be more responsible.
Take care. Smile Smile
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12-11-2012, 01:51 AM
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Don't trip over it. We all do things we regret. Just do what you've been doing which is ignoring him and paying no attention to him. He said all those bad things to make u afraid and give in into having sex with him. If he really still have your picture and decides to show people or make your life miserable so to say, just deny it all like nothing had happened and he was just some sort of psycho that likes to make up stories. U tell yourself u never did such a thing and eventually ull believe u haven't and that won't make u feel scared anymore.
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12-11-2012, 01:51 AM
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Why did you send it to him in the first place?!?!?!? But what u definatly SHOULDN'T DO is commit suicide!!!
. I don't know what else to tell u except that u shouldn't of sent it in the first place.
Hold on Sunshine, it's not the end if the world just ignore him and try to wait it out. JUST DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!!!
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