Why am I being so hated? Its not that I did anything to anyone...?

[PrincessAli]

This is cyber bullying! Tell your parents asap, Hope things get better for you x o x

[Kerensa D]

You always have to remember, this is not because of you, there is nothing wrong with you!

When I started Secondary School, I went there not knowing anyone, I was one of the shortest and had recently started wearing glasses, the old prescription kind that now seem to be making it big. After about 6months at school I had been working hard, doing well in school, unfortunately I now had to wear braces, for the next 5 years.... we have a bit of an ugly betty thing going on here.. At the end of the year, the school had an awards ceremony for those that had done well, I was called up to win an award, It was an award that had normally gone to 5th years - which is what we called it back than- I was just a 1st year, but they had seen that I had done just exceptionally well at school, well of course that was something everyone was going to remember for all the wrong reasons. The second year and although I had made a few friends, nothing of a real best friend, I was being bullied alot, my mum;s friend was becoming a hairdresser, my mum volunteered me to be her Guinea pig, All my long hair was chopped and had streaks put in that went wrong, and at school people put stickers on my head that said Birds#@t on it, as that is what the streaks looked like. I was miserable, thankfully we didn't have FB and other media in my teenage years.... The bullying got so bad at one point, that I was pushed down a flight of stairs, I was also pushed outside, we were on a concrete slope and it was slippery, I fell and banged my head. My memories of school are not good, I have let it affect me all my life, believing I am not good enough. Believing that everything that was being said was true, because I heard it so often then it must be..... Please Stop, don't let this happen to you, don't carry this with you. You are and will be affected by this, what is being said and done to you is wrong, there is no shame in asking for help and telling people who can help you. You will not make things worse by telling people what is going on, you are already low...do you really think it could get worse!!!

Keep a copy of everything that is being said, print it off the computer do a dump screen, email it to yourself, whatever method you can, but keep a copy, one to prove what is being said and two, it will be something to look back on....after you have made copies and written everything down, of what is going on with you, report the messages to Facebook and all the other sites where these messages are appearing, yes you can leave, but why should you have to go, it is not you that has done anything wrong! you have just as much right to be there as anyone else does....

Tell a student support worker, teacher, a parent, anyone you think you can talk to, if you don't think you can bring yourself to talk, leave out the written down things about what is going on and let them read it, they will understand then and help you, and they will help you.

My daughter has had a problem with bullies in her life, it is something that happens everywhere.... but as her parent, I wanted to do everything I could to protect her, I did not want to see her hurt, and your parents will be the same.

Don't hold all this in, if you ever want someone to email, then please email me, I would love to know if you do get something sorted.

[Dj Brown]

Calm down believe it's not some thing you should be sad about
I bet you are a really beautiful person and it shouldn't matter what other fools say. Most of the time hate mail and that are just the work Of insecure people who put others down to feel better about them selves . I hate hearing this because I always hear about people committing suicide over this crap on the news.. Don't pay attention to what these people say other wise you'll start to forget how beautiful you really are...... Who are they to judge ...
Never say your not pretty and don't pet them get you down

And if you need to talk just email me : Dj.bowron@gmail.com