I'm 14 and I want to learn how to fight. Help please?

[yahoozi]

I'm 14 and I never have worked out. I want to learn how to defend myself in situations. I'm scrawny. So I want to learn how to punch (without my hand getting hurt) how to kick (like in Japanese movies) (or regularly) and dodge.
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I also want to be MORE independent. Like I don't want to be as social as I am for example. Like going outside and having Internet privileges like Facebook. YouTube. Twitter. Etc...
I always refuse to be independent. Like my Internet NEVER GOES OUT! I want Help on that
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One more thing. My hair. It's light brown/dirty blonde. I want to grow it out and have like an dark orangish color
Mixed with dark brown. Would that be a good color?

[Vince]

Recreating yourself never helps your self esteem, it only hurts it because you feel you cannot be yourself. And as for learning to fight, while it is not necessary in todays society, you can ask a friend or your dad to teach you.

[Dave]

Brazillian jiu jitsu all the way man

[Joshua]

Go on youtube and type in how to fight! It should help you good luck.

[Seishin]

I think you should do Kickboxing I have no experience in it but my brother used to do it and he was able to do everything you listed. Also if you want to be more independent just do it, you're not going to get it done if you just talk about it to people. I'm not saying restrict internet and your social life completely just lower it to a limit you are comfortable with. Also don't try and rush it, do it slowly, step by step.

Hope I helped

[Kais]

use your brains that's is why we evolved in the first place

[LIONDANCER]

You might want to ask in the beauty section about the hair thing. It has nothing to do with martial arts.
The independence thing is a question for the social section. It too has nothing to do with martial arts.
As for you wanting to learn martial arts find a teacher. Noone on here can teach you. We can advise you how to find a good school but the rest is up to you. So shut down your computer, go out and start visiting some schools and watch the classes and see what you can relate to. If you have questions about what you saw we are here to help.