How to talk and flirt with random girls?

[SLMAN]

Talking to a random can be very stressful for me cause I don't know her, and the only time I could talk to a random girl is if she talks to me, but I want to be the first one to say something without being creepy, and looking stupid. Like if I see a girl on facebook, on twitter, walking, at the mall, or at school(BTW im in high school 11th grade) and I don't know what to say. Like what should I say, how to introduce myself, what to talk about, what type of questions should I ask, and some people say see what she is interested in and ask open ended question. I also want to know how to flirt with a girl for beginners I guess cause the flirting I know is touching and I dont want to be rude with somebody I dont know. It would really help if a girl answerd this so I can get a better understanding. Ima good looking person I keep myself clean and smelling good. Im also a good person to talk to and im just a good laid back person. I tried talking to my mom about this but she thinks I dont like people and I do just have a hard time communicating with other people. Oh and no BS seriously.

[Filip]

Just be yourself

[Samuel]

get some guts (Balls) And Just Randomly walk up to her and talk, and then start flirting

[Audrey]

Just say hi and make conversation with her and just talk about the weekend or just ask her to a hang out or something. The best thing to do is not to stress it. Just let it flow out of you naturaly just like if you were talking to one of your friends.

[Tammy]

i really truely believe that when you meet the right someone conversation and flirting just will be natural and easy because these things are not supposed to be stressful

[Adam]

I'm not trying to sell you anything here seriously you can download it for free but you really need to read neil strauss the game,

you have to be confident and be interesting, when I talk to a girl the conversation just flows naturally, if i find them attractive I just talk to them if they don't seem interested or have anything interesting to say back to me it's nice to meet you, if they still want to talk to you they'll come and talk to you or maybe hand you they're number or whatever... Facebook, Twitter not a good place to start a conversation, try actually having a face to face conversation, it works, your expressions, your confidence can not be measured by text but by body language and expressions.

Have fun
Confidence & Interesting is what is attractive........
Trust me :-)

[thatoneguy24]

I actually have better luck talking to random girls when the only person around I know is my wingman. Spot a girl, and take control. Go up and introduce yourself. Make sure to make her laugh. Tease her a little. If she gets touchy about being teased, then you're not going to win with that one so move on. Do NOT touch a girl while flirting this way, unless she asks you to. You don't want to scare her away and make her think you're a creeper. The key to success is CONFIDENCE. Show it even if you really don't have any.

[Chloe5500]

It's not your job to flirt. For most girls; if they see a man flirting then she knows he's lusting after her. And at that point she may want to take this to the bedroom, and I don't think you want to do that. Remember that you want to provider a girl with a respectable image for yourself. Remember don't lust. By looking at a woman in such a way is disrespectful enough. Just be yourself, and don't over do it like how you see on tv. We can sniff out the ones who just wants a blow job or a relationship, and this is where I say men home become stupid at. You have to be yourself, and don't go for it if your not looking for a girlfriend. And actually the touching that you see is for sexual stimulation not flirting. And you have to be honest with yourself, most of us like honest guys and guys with emotion, not emo.

Just remember to keep it clean not dirty.