Dilemma: Please help!?

[Sipping Tea in the Forbidden Garden]

I was talking to this guy and the sex was really good, he treated me respectfully, we never once fought, had uncomparable chemistry, and overall we were that couple everyone was jealous of. But one day he started acting strange and told me never to contact him again and that he does not have feelings for me anymore. He told me he would block my number if I insisted and to move on. It was literally like a scene out of a suspense movie. This perfect couple suddenly has a mystery breaking them apart. I was hurt, and I hurt real good, for a real long time. Its been 4 months and I still dont think about him much less than I did when it first happened. However, I did what he asked and I stopped contacting him. I am to a point where I believe something tragic happened in his life making him feel like he needed to push me away acting as hostile as possible. He has no new girlfriend and there is no other logical explanation for his behavior. I have just recently joined social media and we have some mutual friends so I know he can see my page and he knows I can see his. Before I joined he hadnt posted anything in a month, and within the first two days of me joining he started posting sappy things on his page like: "Crazy how you can get so many texts but just be waiting for that one person", and "So crazy how you cant even be friends with these girls again, you're just strangers with memories". He was also posting romantic songs on his page.
Seeing as he has no new gf and is posting these romantic things I am wagering that he is trying to get my attention but does not want to be the first one to initiate contact being that his previous behavior towards me was innapropriate and quite frankly, very mean.

Its going to be new years tonight and I think this is the only real good excuse to contact him I am going to get until another major holiday like thanksgiving or xmas of 2013. And by then I probably will not contact him because it has been too long and pride will hold me back, and he might be thinking the same. When people play games and hide how they really feel no one wins, so I am thinking about contacting him tonight being that I have an excuse. I cannot live with myself if he becomes "the one that got away".
The only thing holding me back is that he could easily do the same. And even if I text him and he is not acting mean anymore and has a DAMN GOOD excuse for why he said the things he did, I will always wonder to myself: If he was really worth it, he would have reached out to me first, being that the last time we spoke HE was the one being mean and pushing me away.

Well, what do you think? Should I reach out to this guy?? I really want to, and feel I cant rest until I do, but pride is in the way.
I care about him so much and thinking about him contacting me makes me literally want to throw up. Whether the response is good or bad....
LetGoGod: I appreciate your answer but I am not a girl who is played. We kept in contact for three months after we had sex EVEN THOUGH i was CROSS COUNTRY and could not see him, we still spoke everyday like I was right next to him. It was not about the sex.

[Jazzy]

wish the guy a happy new year. dont let pride take over feelings. never live your life thinking if only i had done that. live for the moment

[LetGoLetGod]

I know.... exactly, exactly what is happening. He played you. He did everything he could, to make sure you guys ended up dating, SO THAT he could have the chance to KEEP having good sex with you. He made sure to be sooo sweet, creative, respectful, and kind. Why, you ask? To sadly... just get 1 thing. And the reason he is saying not to contact you, is to scare you off, so that he can perfectly do the HIT it and QUIT it game. He got what he wanted, than had to make up a reason for you two to stop talking.

Or..... he is going through some very, very bad stuff. And daammnnn girl, why would YOU contact him, first?! He told YOU yo GO, therefor, you need to let HIM come to YOU if you still want him. If you guys are meant to be, and he will end up realizing what he did was wrong, he will come back to you. If not.... than it just wasn't meant to be, which means the real man you will end up being so happy with, is still out there waiting, just like you

PLEASE ANSWER MINE PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!

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