Will a guy have sex with you even if he doesn't want to?

[speedingcars]

I don't get your question- do you think he didn't want to have sex with you? It sounds like he definitely did. He was just probably a little nervous because you were a virgin and he didn't expect you to want to lose your virginity to him. But it sounds like he treated you really well and tried to make it special even though you're not official, which was sweet of him.

Stop worrying so much. He hasn't "played" you at all. You wanted to have sex with him, he asked you repeatedly to make sure you wanted to. I'm assuming you understood at the time that you weren't in a relationship with him and that losing your virginity to him wouldn't guarantee a relationship with him. So just chill and see how things go.

At any rate, it seems like he's a nice guy.