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Am I just too innocent and boring?
02-16-2013, 05:25 AM
Post: #1
Am I just too innocent and boring?
i'm 14, and the majority of the girls in my school are very...idk how to say it. they dress in heels, low tight shirts that show a lot of cleavage, super short shorts or tight leggings, HEELS?! and they wear horrible makeup (raccoon eyes) and have had from 3-10 boyfriends. I haven't met one person who doesn't curse, and the people in my school try to be ghetto and stuff and curse a lot.
Idk maybe i'm too...innocent. even my own aunt has said it. I always wear clothes that cover my body and don't show off any cleavage WHATSOEVER I would be so ashamed to be seen by my parents and embarrassed if I ever even did. I wear pretty clothes, but not like the girls in my school do. i'm saving heels for my high school years (16,17) and I wear light, natural pretty makeup. I don't curse and i'm really quiet because I don't like to engage with those type of people who curse and dress like that...so people think i'm weird. people mistaken me for a 7th grader. I mean, I watch shows like glee, American horror story, etc...and i'm caught up with those annoying "dirty" jokes and I'm not STUPID I just don't like saying them.
is there something wrong with me?

oh, and while almost every girl in my school has had a boyfriend, i'm embarrassed to have one!

oh and I don't have an fb, twitter, instagram, ANYTHING. I think it's a waste of time, and people are shocked and continuously bug me about it.
also in the beginning of the school year, everyone was obsessed with me including the populars...but I guess I was just boring to be around since all they talked about was how ugly this girl was, or how they were going to smoke weed next week I stayed quiet. and when I talked, it was usually about cooking, animals, t.v shows and colleges, they were just like ok...now everyone just doesn't pay attention to me and they even tell me i'm really quiet and when I answer a question in class, people are like she talks!!. I mean really?

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02-16-2013, 05:33 AM
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No. You just seem smart.

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02-16-2013, 05:33 AM
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Your just being who you are. Nothing wrong with that. Everyone is different Smile
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02-16-2013, 05:33 AM
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They're the boring ones; everyone acting, dressing, living exactly the same way seems pretty boring to me - well done for being different! Please don't let them change you, you seem classy and intelligent, so stay that way. Smile
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02-16-2013, 05:33 AM
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Good news: There's nothing wrong with you!

It's unfortunate that you're attending a school full of thug-wannabes. When you get to college there will be more people from more places and you will find people who are like you to be friends with. The men who will be interested in you will be able to offer relationships that are healthier, happier and a lot more fun too. (and they'll be more likely to end up rich too!)

The best you can do for now is to tough it out. If bullying becomes severe you can talk to your parents about switching schools, but it doesn't sound like it's reached that point yet.

14 is definitely not too young to have never dated. Most of the girls (and boys) who claim to have slept with lots of people at that age are lying. Smile and nod as they brag, but don't believe their BS.

High school is notorious for being full of jerks that will make fun of you for being different. It's going to hurt for a while, but you sound like you're going to turn out better than they are. Your life is probably headed up, but for them high school will be the best their life ever gets.

If you want, you can work on being charismatic, but don't force yourself to be extroverted if you don't want to.

Good luck!
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02-16-2013, 05:33 AM
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first of all, fuk you
Second of all, dunno lol

Fourth of all, bro/sis mego, sup?
Suck a chode and get pregnant then
when ur preggy u get fat
I u black then yo babies look like sheets
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