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Please help.... Is it a good idea?
02-28-2013, 10:50 AM
Post: #1
Please help.... Is it a good idea?
Quick warning: this will be a bit long. I apologize.... feel free to skim.

Question: Is it a good idea to confront him on Valentine's day?

Information: I'm a girl, freshman. My only friend (junior, guy) are really close, but Wednesday night my (overprotective) father told me to stop talking to him because we talked every day. So over Facebook, I told him that we couldn't be friends anymore.... I didn't want to, but I wanted to be honest with him since he noticed I was avoiding him. He took it a bit hard, and so all of yesterday/today, we didn't talk at all.... I'm really sad, because I don't have any late-night conversations to look forward to anymore, and I think I might have developed feelings for him, too. I'm planning to make truffles on Wednesday, and write him an apology letter so I can give them to him on Thursday. I'm also planning to try and talk my father into letting me talk to him on weekends and at lunch only, since his main reason was because he thought we were talking too much. If he agrees, I'll add that into the letter and hope for the best....

Though, I'm having doubts. What if he doesn't want to keep contact? I don't want to do anything I will regret, so I'm having mixed feelings.... I kind if miss talking to him. .__."
I generally tend to avoid social interaction, because I feel tense around people, but I feel calm around this guy.... I have straight As (excluding Physical Education, I have a B there), and I am well aware of how trivial relationships are in high school, but I just.... like the idea of having good morals, and having a reason to smile >.<
We used to spend time together reading at Lunch, and he usually asked for hugs just before the bell rang.... if that counts. Thanks for the answers, I appreciate your input.

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02-28-2013, 10:58 AM
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See im telling this only because i protect women dont waste ur life like this and every father tells his daughter some things only for their own good dont waste ur time with these petty things get a degree,a job and marry a good guy.Im a boy who hates girls but if they are not safe i protect them think of me like ur brother who is 16 years old

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02-28-2013, 11:03 AM
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Tell your dad that your a girl and your not little forever. Tell your dad the truth about all the feelings u developed for him. Yes u developed feelings if u were looking forward to talking to him at nite. Tell the boy how u feel also. If ur dad dosnt let u talk to him tell him your gunna do it anyways. Ha I would
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02-28-2013, 11:04 AM
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it's a great idea, giving him a letter. it's straightforward, simple and i'm sure he'll appreciate the gesture.. i'm positive he'll want to keep contact with you as you yourself said that he took it badly. maybe he might reject your apology at first, but don't worry... i'm positive he'll get around! maybe ---but only if you're okay with it---mentioning you're feelings will be a good idea, but that's only if you feel he might feel the same way... have you both shared 'moments' or has he ever made eye contact in a particular way? anyway, i think i might have made a mess of this answer, but i think you get the idea!! all the best!
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02-28-2013, 11:07 AM
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i think you should be straight with him. if he doesn't accept then hes not really a good friend.
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