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What should I do, does this guy really like me or am I in denial of my feelings? 10 pts BEST ANSWER?
04-27-2013, 12:30 AM
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What should I do, does this guy really like me or am I in denial of my feelings? 10 pts BEST ANSWER?
Okay so I've been kind of dating this guy on and off since the beginning of the school year up until December, I'm a Senior..
He has a history of just being a player, and he admits to me being the first girl he's ever tried his hardest to keep happy right?
So the reason why we've been on and off is simply because we just argue, all the time.
Some of the reasons we argue concerns him not ever really trying to make time for us to hang out on weekends..I don't ever see him and until this day we haven't hung out.
He has asked me a few times but it was always to just "chill" at his house then he ends up talking about sex..
I mean he said he respects the fact that Im a Virgin and would never force me or pressure me into having sex but it seems like that's just half the truth
He's just that guy that's just friends with every girl I swear he even admitted to me that he had over 60 girls in his contacts but they were all just "friends" I don't stalk him on twitter or anything but I do see him on my timeline always flirting with other girls but I never actually told him how much it bothered me..I felt like I was just being a pain so I just held it in for a while until it just felt like it was getting worse..and I didn't even feel like I was in a relationship so this eventually lead me to ignore him (while we were still together) and he'd always ask me what's wrong because I have him in 2nd hour...and why Im mad or whatever I'd never actually tell I just say "I don't trust you" and he thinks it's for no reason but I have a reason I just didn't want to tell him..
SO ANYWAY
this thing where he'd just keep coming back and begging me to tell him why Im mad, and why we broke up, what's wrong with me etc And I just kept telling him that I didn't trust him
I really like this guy so it's just been bothering me like crazy.
So now he has a new girlfriend and yes I creeped on his instagram and he posts pictures of her &him, and her again..and all the captions read about how much he "LOVES" her which kind of hurt cause he was telling me the same thing about 3 weeks back and at the time I knew he didn't but still it felt like I was just being played with..but yeah so apparently he loves this girl alot..and people from my school were asking me if I knew he had a new girlfriend..( I just lied and said I didn't ) so he came up to me yesterday when he saw me in the hallway and tried to talk to me..I was trying to ignore him and he continued asking me why Im acting like this and then I snapped "don't you have a girlfriend? why are you still trying to talk to me it doesn't matter anymore" and he looked at me and has the nerve to say "SO?" I don't even like her like that..in my head I knew what I saw on instagram but didn't want to mention it, obviously pointing at the fact that I was creeping on his page. He told me he didn't love her and that If I told him to break up with her he would. he said the only reason he got with her is to make her ex bf jealous cause he "hated" him. and I told him no...and he's like "SEE? your trying to act like you don't care but I know you do" then we kissed and out of shock I walked off.........since he had that player status I refused to let myself admit that I liked him alot, even loved which I feel like that's the point im at..but I never want him to know cause I feel like he'll just eventually hurt me. should I just admit to him how much I like him?

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04-27-2013, 12:32 AM
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You should of known this since the beginning, if the guy is gets a gf right after the breaks up, thats not good. Its easy to fall for pretty boys, but real relationships wont start until 20+ yrs old.
Just forget about it highschool people are too immature.

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