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Does he like me as a friend or more than a friend? or is he just playing around with me?
04-28-2013, 11:26 AM
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Does he like me as a friend or more than a friend? or is he just playing around with me?
I'm still deeply in love with my ex and i would do ABSOLUTELY everything and anything just to get him back. :'( Basically we broke up because of trust issues. The way we met wasn't right, we slept together the first time we met and he judges me from the past even though he knows that i did learn and that i am a good, loyal, faithful girl. We broke up a few times but we always got back together, except the last time we broke things off, we didn't talk for about 2 months and now we do talk - Now we're still friends but i'm confused if he still has feelings or not.

1.He randomly liked one of my pictures on facebook. (it was a picture that i put on facebook about 2 months ago) and he never gives me likes on my pictures on facebook.

2. He's been liking a lot of my statuses.

3. Hes been talking to me randomly, just saying hi, how are you, what did you do this weekend.

4. I had a bad dream and he was in it and i posted a status on facebook about how the bad dream ruined my vibe but i didn't mention that it was about him or anything and then he sent me a message asking me what my dream was about i just answered with this face :O and then he kept saying tell me? are you there? are you going to tell me? and he just kept asking me i kept telling him how i didn't want to say it and he kept saying go, tell me, i wanna know, tell me...he seemed VERY curious and wanted to know badly.

5. when we started sleeping together again, right before it happened he asked me if i was seeing another guy. (but if he had no feelings why would he even want to know or care?)

6) The other day we were talking and i said good night and he replied good night miss. in my culture calling a female "miss" is a compliment because it's like saying i'm a lady. and he has never called me "miss" before.

7) We woke up in the morning and we were just laying side by side and he took my hand and held it for a good 5 minutes.

8) He changed his profile picture on facebook to a picture of me and him.

9) He would ask me to hangout A LOT and if i couldn't he would give me a sad face Sad

10) We spent Christmas together and he walked outside in the freezing cold -30 weather MANY times just to come see me...

I'm confused, i can't tell if he's being friendly cuz he just wants s*x or if he still has feelings for me or really likes me? When i talked to him about giving the serious relationship one LAST try, he didn't even want to consider it, or even think about it. Sometimes i feel like he still has a few feelings but hes hiding them because the thinks that he thinks a relationship won't work and he doesn't want to hurt himself or me. But at the same time i feel like he doesn't having feelings cause he told me a few times to find a new guy and he acts like he really doesn't care if he never sees me again.

What do you think?

Thank You SO MUCH It means a lot. xoxo

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04-28-2013, 11:28 AM
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You must be thin and have long ahir big breasts so forth don't laugh that is how men judge us they are very looks focused

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04-28-2013, 11:35 AM
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OOops lady wat are u doing.... he is just going crazy forr u .. just go and give him a hug thats what i would like to suggest you
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04-28-2013, 11:37 AM
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Best thing I can tell you is to talk to him. This is something that has obviously been concerning you for a while. So talk to him. It may be awkward, but just tell him you feel like you are getting some signals but don't want to assume anything. Just be honest with him.
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04-28-2013, 11:43 AM
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Guys are like a open book when it comes to relationships. He is showing a good amount of signs that he is very interested but he isn't telling you, which would mean he isn't sure himself. I think he is testing it, he wants to see by kissing you, sleeping with you, hanging out with you makes him happy and you. Don't worry, if when he knows that he wants you back, then so will you, he will make sure of it. Big Grin
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04-28-2013, 11:56 AM
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What trust issues?

Is it because you slept with him the first day you met him and now he thinks you're doing that with other guys too.

He doesn't seem interested in you
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