Is it possible to pay a girl to be your girlfriend? Highly considering this?

[anonymous]

Im 18 almost 19 and never had a girlfriend in my life before and im getting to the point of going to the extreme. it doesnt help I'm socially awkward, not muscular, odd voice, cant flirt, not funny and im a nice guy...basically a worthless human being who cant offer a girl anything

ive tried dating sites like POF but that resulted in two girls posting my profile onto facebook and was shared 31 times among people. So thats awesome...who knows how many randoms know me now

it helps being countless times your ugly, gross and would be embarrassing to be seen with. Despite older people telling me im a good looking kid but i dont believe that, as they are saying that to be nice

im starving myself to lose weight im 6 feet and currently weigh 160 but have little muscle and aim to get down to 130, no I'm not anorexic or anything....girls like skinny guys

Im going to the extreme now this includes:

plastic surgery- complete surgery to change my voice entirely, chin implants to give me a chiselled look and reducing a bit of fat under my chin and cheeks. Im currently saving for this

OR....as my title states..can i pay a girl to be my girlfriend minus the sex? Like im considering posting ads and stuff for a girl to be paid monthly by me to be my girlfriend


ive been rejected 9 times by girls who chase after their jerks and batboys, ive held a gun to my head twice already and im ready to just give up. they chose some ******* over a guy like me whos studying politics and law

so can i pay a girl for this? if not i'll be getting a complete overhaul on my face surgically


girls only love the bad boys and jerks, for example today there were two attractive girls in front of me sitting and talking with this guy with a snapback, oversized hoodie and he looks like a hood rat and i can tell he was as dumb as a tree....yet they love him. Yet girls pick low lifes who do drugs over a guy like me who is studying politics and law like a 4-5 on terms of attraction and i make money

[Booobang]

That's kinda messed up, there would be no feelings, at all.
And you're only 18, you're still young. Live life and don't worry about girls.
Goals are ahead, stay focused!
(:

[Cake!]

Hey you! Stop being so negative!! I am 19 and I haven't ever had a real relationship either! Does that bother me ? Well sometimes maybe a little but overall I am always happy! Be positive and love yourself ! No need for such extreme measures as you are prob fine looking :3 not all people who haven't had a relationship are ugly! Well I for sure am not! As for ads?! Really?! You want to find true love and not just any girl who would treat you bad! When the time is right the girl will come for you and in the mean time focus your energy on other things that make you happy! Trust me not all girls like bad guys I like good guys :3 I run away from bad guys! Maybe the problem is the good girls and good guys are too shy to talk or notice each other ? Hmmm who knows! But let me tell you the day you stop hating and loving yourself and being positive slowly your life will change! I give you a 100% guarantee! I promise it will! Just be positive! It changed mine and it can change yours and that is the power of positivity! Now I hope I have given you some hope and something to think about ! Be happy

[JalousieCoeur12]

Don't thats sad lol, Girls who are looking for serious relationships won't go for the jerks and bad boys, girls who are worth your time will see you for the kind person you are. Girls don't particularly like skinny guys, we prefer toned muscly guys, go to the gym! will get you muscles soon enough, plastic surgery can go horribly wrong so don't even think about it, once you start you can't stop. ONE thing i do know for sure will help is CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF girls love confident guys, the reason they go for the bad guys and jerks is because they are CONFIDENT be happy with who you are! it will shine through

[Chloe5500]

Um...,yes you can? But the relationship won't mean anything and the girl will more and likely ask for the sex on the spot period. That's what happens when you post an ad online. But don't be what a girl wants you to be. Be yourself. That's what attracts a girl more then a fake. If you be fake then no one is gonna want to be around you. Not even a girl can stand the idea that they was being used for a man's enjoyment nor the other way around. Take your time, at least you have a career going for ya! Don't change yourself for a girl, it's not worth.

Coming from a Woman!

I'm telling you, don't screw yourself up for people. Before you end up God forbid killing yourself over the agony of a girl.

[Michelle]

paying a girl to go out with u is not the right thing to do... u just havent met the right person for u... and ur still very young so whats the rush

[Misty Waters]

Okay, hold on. First things first.

1.) You need some ****ing confidence! Girls do not want to go out with someone who has 0 self esteem and thinks so negatively of himself. Even if you are butt ugly, if you carry yourself with confidence(not cockiness) and take time to look your best(proper hygiene, hair, clothes, etc.), then I'm positive that girls will like you better, or at least notice you more.

2.) Do not ****ing starve yourself, you're only damaging your health, trust me, I've done that and it doesn't solve anything, just makes you gain more weight in the end. Instead work out and eat healthy. Plus, being 6 feet, and 160lbs. is normal, it's a healthy weight for your height, dropping down to 130 will put you in the unhealthy category with a BMI or 17. Girls don't like skinny guys. Well, some might, but I would much rather think that they like HEALTHY guys who take care of themselves. If anything, you should gain weight in muscle.

3.) Plastic surgery is not the way to go. You need to learn how to accept yourself, and deal with the things you can't change. If you can't love yourself, you can't love others. Getting a different voice and face isn't going to change your chances with girls. They might me more drawn to your looks, but in the end they stay for your personality. Looks are not everything, trust me. I've liked guys being of their personality and actions over their looks hundreds of time. ( Ex. I had a crush on a turian because of his personality and then later accepted his appearance).

4.) Just because a girl likes someone else over you, does not mean that that someone else is a jerk. Theirs obviously something that the girl likes in him, and it's probably his humor or personality, or same interests. Don't judge him just by the clothes he wears. Most girls don't care how much money you'll make, or that you like politics, they'll care about who you are.

5.) Relationships aren't everything. The world does not evolve around having a girlfriend. Go hang out with friends, get some hobbies, find out who you are and do what you enjoy. Looking for love will just pull you even more away from it. It comes at the most unexpected of times, or some shit like that.

6.) To answer your initial question, yes you can pay a girl to be your girlfriend minus the sex. I think it's called being a Sugar Daddy. Just know that if you do that, the relationship will not be genuine.