What to say to get people to add you on facebook?

[A little heavy on the make up this morning]

[abraXus]

you cant get people to talk to you unless you are already their friend

it's against the rules to use facebook to talk to strangers

[SBW]

If its a person I'm attracted to and see potential interest in, I usually just send them a friend request and they end up doing the talking or liking my stuff. I mean what choice did I have but to send a request right? It's not in person for them to notice me out of no where! They coul be a really busy person who only check notifications! I'm totally like that myself most months of the year when I had fb! So it's totally ok I think to simply send a request other than that, sometimes I msg them "well hi there ". Usually a good start up too they reply "hello hello we have mutual friends!" Or something.. Or I had a ex's ex trying to add me to spy on her ex who came back to me, being my ex first... And I didn't accept for a week then she msgs me saying "you look so familiar, do I know you from somewhere? I'm all "nope" but she was consistant, a yr late we agreed out ex is a manwhoree and we should hangout with eachother soon so he can go crazy plus were super hot, he hates us now

[SPYDERBLADE]

You could ask them, or send them a friend request.