Does my boyfriend love me? Asking a more mature audience :)?

[ashley]

My boyfriend and I got in a fight last night... Not sure if he meant what he was saying... But anyways... I accused him of posting on his twitter "why doesn't the dmv hire some more hotties if we have to stay there so long" (he does have a dry sense of humor but it sort of made me mad).. He got defensive and started going off on me saying I was a "dumbsh**" and an idiot and retarted... I told him dont call me those things it's so disrespectful and it's pissing me off.. He said well you have such a thick skull its hard for me to get through to you... He said I don't get him and what not... Which idky he said that he just kept going on and on.. Then he brought up his ex gf's when all I was saying then just explain it to me(he said I shouldn't have to you should just get it by now) and don't call me those names.. He said he feels like he's walking on egg shells with me.. which idk don't think he does he shouldn't call me those things and if I feel something isn't right I am going to say something... His stories come so scattered and from time to time change just for the good of him to prove a point in the situation or argument we are in...He told me if I do something like this again we're done... I said don't threaten me like that..He said it wasn't a threat its a promise... Does he still love me... Did I do anything.. Is there something wrong with me??

[Jennifer]

I was going to answer your question but when I read about a post on twitter...

I stopped.

I dont even need to read any further to disclose that this is your problem right there.

Grow up if you want to be in grown up situations.

[Violette]

How old are you guys? How long have you been together? More information would be helpful. Thanks.

[docgabriel]

Oh boy...

He sounds like he made a joke and you accused him of beign unfaithful....seems to me by his reaction that this is something that he's been putting up with for a while now.

You are going to drive him away if you don't change your ways.

[Alana Atkins]

Neither of you are being very mature right now.

No, I do not think that he loves you. People that love each other will not call each other names, and put each other down. Arguments do happen but when you love someone you try to work them out and understand why the other person is upset.
I do not think that you should be in this relationship. You cannot communicate with him the way that you want to, and he is just flying off the hand at little situations. I quite honestly do not know what you are holding on to.
If you go back to him and tell him that you want to talk honestly with him about things, without getting angry and he decides to listen then maybe your relationship has a chance, but I doubt that will happen. It will just be a vicious cycle of you getting angry, and him retaliating.

[Key]

I'd say the whole twitter thing should go if the two of you aren't seeing eye to eye with it. And it seems as though you're accusing him of cheating or something. Hey if he's not touching flirting or any doing anything sexual with those women then you shouldn't get mad. Why get mad when there obviously aren't any women there?? He made a suggestion. Also he's irritated by you or something by what you're telling us. He's a bit frustrated because you maybe aren't doing something right or whatever. So If i were and if you want to keep him and everything then you need to communicate with him and ask him what is it if you don't already know. Because it seems as though you're gonna lose him. He shouldn't be disrepcting you either. My boyfriend likes to curse a lot and I communicate to him a serious manner that I don't like that. So tell him and tell him you're serious. You're a little confusing in you're question though. Communicate to him because I believe he's serious about leaving you okay. Good Luck Also men don't like for you to accuse them of cheating all the time even though we know there's a lot of competition out there and we don't want another woman to catch their eye. That can make a guy leave and if you're very insecure or even just a little bit a guy wants a women who can keep herself up and who has a lot of confidence and who are smart and who don't lack common sense Good Luck hope I helped

[Rick]

Things really got out of control quickly and escalated. Can you calmly ask him if he was just joking about the comment? If it was only a joke and you both decide to see it as that and forgive each other for the hurtful things that were said things will work out. There's nothing wrong with either of you. Fights happen and are part of any relationship.