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Liz · 02-19-2014, 01:43 PM

OK, let's see if you can learn from your past mistakes.

He cheated on you.
You found out.
You forgave him and stayed with him.
He cheated on you again.

Now what do you think will happen if you stay with him again?
If you answered "he will cheat on me again", there is hope for you.

Amanda · 02-19-2014, 01:44 PM

Please leave while you can! My father cheated on my mom over 6 times (caught) with different women, year long relationships..My mom always stayed because she thought it was her fault, she always forgave him because he MANIPULATED her. That is the biggest thing these men do, is manipulate. Let me tell you, once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater...they say they will stop, no, they will just learn how to be more and more sneaky. Cheating is disgusting. My mom still hasnt left my dad...but has stopped caring for him/sleeping with him..he will not let her leave-he threatens to take all of our savings if he she leaves him, he threatened to take our house...This is 26 years into their marriage. My mom didnt want to leave him after the 1st time cheating because of us, her kids(we were young, im 20 now) but she said the biggest regret she has is not divorcing him... I know when you become a mom you devote your life into your children and thats how it should be. Men get jealous(like my dad) maybe because you sleep with him less, dont spend enough time...but cheating is disgusting and it will only get worse I PROMISE YOU! So please, i know it is so scary but just make the right decision and leave while you can... You will end up regretting it when your in your 40s and he just keeps cheating and cheating.
God bless you and your kids! I wish you the best of luck..I really do!! = )