How can I view someone's wall despite their privacy?

[Jay From Ottawa]

1) It is simply not possible. Security settings are put in place for a reason.

2) You shouldn't be spying on your daughter, that's the number 1 way to lose all of your childs respect and ensure that she doesn't trust you.

3) Instead try engaging your child in an open and honest conversation. Best way to do this, is to be upfront and honest yourself. Start by telling your child what your life was like at 13. Tell her about all of the stupid stuff you did, including any kind of "illegal" behaviour. After admitting to it, explain how, looking back on thing, you wished you'd have done a few things differently. Introducing your daughter to the concept of "hindsight" or "wisdom" will let her know what while some of the things you may say may appear hypocritical, you are only able to take your current stance because you've learned from your mistakes, and that all you want to do is help her learn from your past experiences. Regardless, don't underestimate the power of making mistakes, so long as we learn from our mistakes, then they weren't committed for nothing.