Cultures/Groups: Why do people blame black women when black men date out?

[Pink Tiara <3]

Lol. I said this is one of my answers. But its annoying when ppl do that. Mostly black men who do date out tend to do this so they can justify what they are doing. I'm black and my bf is black and I treat him with respect. I love him, I support him, and will do anything for him and he will do the same. This black woman has attitude excuse is used excessively like other races of women don't have an attitude and if they do, they will look past it but a black woman can't have one. Such a double standard. We are not the ones to blame. If black men don't like their selves or is a victim of brain wash, then that's on him. Not us. I know I do my part as a girlfriend so this generalizing nonsense needs to stop. Don't blame black women for some black men actions, simple as that.