Cultures/Groups: Why do people blame black women when black men date out?

[Desta]

Black women...are blamed for EVERYTHING in this society. We are at the bottom of the social totem pole, hence making us easier targets for everyone and scapegoats for just about everything. We are the group that is under the most scrutiny for a plethora of negative factors, being "researched" for our unattractiveness, our singleness, our health problems, our baby daddy problems, why our butts are so big, why our hair is so thick, why we breathe the way we do-- everything!!! Well, no one is defending us. So why not just blame us? White people have started highlighting and diagnosing our issues and putting black woman at the center of them. They even hold news specials on it! (That news special on why black women were single...discussed by ALL WHITE WOMEN who wanted to try to pick us apart.) There is a defected group of black men who have also adopted this practise. The media is doing a good job of highlighting our differences to keep us fighting and clawing at each other. I pray that someday our people see just what the media is doing to tear us apart. Right now, black men are unwittingly falling for the bones that the media tosses to them to keep their egos inflated. The media wants to showcase the richest and most popular black men with beautiful white women on their arms. Notice that rich black male celebrities with white women are the most popular on tv? The Kanye West and Kim Kardashian pregancy just blew up bigger than Beyonce and Jay-z's ever did. We all know what Kobe Bryant and Vanessa's children look like because they've shown the couple and their mixed up family a zillion times, but how come they don't show Lebron James and his fiance's family...and mind you, they were HS swethearts?? Black women... Pssshhh. We're just ghetto, neck rolling, finger snapping, gold digging, broke, baby mamas! Black women have been weakened to the point where ANYONE can disregard them. Bash and blame them. It's the "in" thing to do now.

Kind of went on a rant here....but I couldn't help it. This topic really gets me going...