How do I get comfortable with boys paying?

[Shelly]

There's this guy at school and I e known him for two years and we dated once last year and once this year, and I'm dating him now. I really, really like him but I can't get him to spend any time with me. Our entire relationship is basically a hug in the hallway and a little peck on the lips at the end of the day. After school sometimes we talk on Facebook and he says he wants our relationship to be something more. That's confusing because he doesnt make the effort that I do to talk and hang out at school. I always try to talk to him but he answers me briefly and then goes back to what he's doing. Anyway I think it's time we go on a date. Maybe to just get lunch or something, but what if he wants to pay? I feel uneasy when people pay for me. Even when it's a friends mom or someone. Also ive never been on a date before so that part scares me to. Is there anything I should know about 1st dates, and can anyone say anything to make me feel comfortable about him paying? Thanks so much for your time!!