Ex is mad I moved on after I screwed up?

[M.]

You don't know much about how women think. And what happened is proof. But when a woman is emotionally injured, she usually wants to punish the injurer. And that is what is happening now. You obviously don't want to play her female game, and this injures her more. If you truly want to move on, stop ALL contact with her. That means deleting emails and sms before you read them. If you are not through with her yet, meet in person and have a thorough discussion about everything.

Women, in general, have self esteem issues. When you are acting suspicious, they are immediately distrustful, and do incasive things like snooping and even talking to exes and cheaters. But when you treat them well, they may also become suspicious, and they snoop and talk and inquire alk the more.

You are not ready for a serious, committed relationship yet. But when you are, get rid of any and all evidence of any previous women. If you don't, you'll be sorry. And stop all contact with exes too.