Ex is mad I moved on after I screwed up?

[kate]

It doesn't really matter what you've done that was good because of the bad things you did. You are right, you screwed up completely. In a relationship where you are seriously considering marriage, there shouldn't be anything for her to find. Women aren't looking for fairy tales, but when relationships get hard, we need to know that our partner has our back. You didn't. That can't really be forgotten. If the situation were reversed would you really forgive her?

All you can do is take the heart ache that you are feeling and use it to make yourself into someone who is trustworthy. Right now, you aren't. You aren't good relationship material until you do that. It doesn't matter how romantic you are or how good in bed if you aren't trustworthy and reliable.