are you possesive in relationships?

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WOAH! This has control written all over it. Going to the extent of forcing his presence when you ask him to leave? Over stepping personal boundaries and privacy rights by making imprtant changes without any permission from you. Snooping into an open face book may be tempting and most would peek BUT he defintely crossed the line.
Control, Control, Control....it's only gonna get worse because the first litte while in the beginning they are on their best behaviour...holy crap, you better pay attention to all these Reg Flags, as they are called and don't ignore your gut instincts where he is concerned. This is not normal, it's not healthy and you are absolutely not reading too much into this.
I would advice you to do an online search for web sites that describe healthy relationship signs and signs of control and psychological abuse.
You might also try mistaking control for attentiveness in a relationship.
What to look for in controlling and abusive relatioships.
Young girls easily fall into abusive dating/relationships

Any of those phrases will get you a variety of sites to visit that will answer your question better than any of us..don't take it from me...see what the statistics are warning you about.

Good luck...good for you for being smart enough to question his behaviour!
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