Should I leave my husband for his lack of motivation and selfishness?

[ShootingStarr]

Sounds like you want to leave him. You can't help someone out if they don't want to help themself out. It's that time for you to take action and do something good for yourself. Do what's right for you. It seems like he is not serious with you or his life. He is a complete womanizer and will do you no good. You gave him chances and he took advantage of them. Some women are smart, once their husband cheat they kick them to the curb and never look back. While there are some women who keeps on hanging on and hoping he will change one day. Are you really willing to wait for him to make a change? You have good reasons to leave him. To me it sounds like your relationship was already over long time ago. If you could leave him, more power to you!