Am I in the friend zone?

[OllieR]

Im a little bit puzzled at the moment as to where I stand with this one particular girl.
Met her at a Halloween party and quite literally got on from their, she then added me on facebook and before I know it we are talking pretty much every day.

Since we live a little distance away as Im university, she usually comes up for events etc and thats how I have got to know her more, on top of speaking to her over text and facebook etc. She was seeing another boy around a month ago but has said she dont know why she was seeing him and knew it was not going anywhere, this has all blown over now.

On New Years eve however we started getting with each other whilst we was out and then she stayed at mine for the next night. A few nights ago we arranged to meet and head out for food with another couple. She then stayed at mine.

My problem is this, I dont know whether I am in the friend zone or not, for example we have shared the same bed on three occasions and nothing has happened, yet over the phone we have talked about sex etc. Another thing I have noticed is that Im kissing her less often which im completely unsure on.

I dont know whether its her waiting for me to get things rolling or if these are signs of simply being in the friend zone, the reason I am unsure is because theirs things that happen/happened that make me think im not, like i have kissed her on multiple occasions, talked about personal things and speaking to her about sex which she started the conversation on. She also wanted me to her meet her mum and step dad which I have and she has also met my family, which would kind of be unnecessary if we were just friends.

What are you thoughts and what should I do?
Thanks