would you say her and this chick Julie are more than friends or am I paranoied?

[Kiieru]

You really won't know unless you ask her. She might be interested in her friend, or she could just be very affectionate with her- many girls are naturally very physically affectionate with friends and it doesn't mean anything. I also don't mean to upset you, but she really can't cheat on you if you aren't in a relationship. She can and may very well see other people if you don't set some boundaries. If you're looking for an actual monogamous relationship, you need to initiate one and not just assume she has limits. Tell her you care about her and you want to know if she would consider a relationship with you, and if she says no, talk about it. If she says yes, be happy but don't mention the friend right away or you will upset her and make her think you're trying to control her. Later down the line if you see she still seems to be too affectionate with her friend, make a stand and tell her you don't think it's appropriate to be so physical with her friend if you're together. Best of luck.